Okay, I've been friends with this guy for about 2 years now. He now tells me that he doesn't wanna just be friends. I told him that I didn't wanna be more than friends, and now he's trying to make all of my friends hate me by spreading rumors and lies to everyone. PLEASE HELP! What should I do??????
2006-09-05 02:24:04 · 14 answers · asked by the love guru 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm pretty sure he has blown the whole more than just friends, and is now even off the just friends category. Cut your ties. You don't need friends like that.
2006-09-05 02:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then he wasnt much of a friend to start with....he is stabbin u in the back.
Dont do nothing, just be nice to him but remember , dont let him be your best friend again.
Your friends will not hate u if they are true friends.
Sounds like he is jealous over u is why he is doing this.
Show him he will not make u mad and just be nice.
Dont give him the anger power ok...
Its a tough world and true friends are hard to come by.
Your best friend is you, yourself .
2006-09-05 02:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friends about this so they are aware of this situation. If they dont take your sides then they are not yoru friends. You need to stop talking to this guy too, things will start to get akward and you guys will end up being enemies. You could still be friends when hes over you and all the BS will stop.
2006-09-05 02:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of the friendship. It is obvious that he has had ulterior motive for a while now. And now he is playing with you for rejecting him. it is time to end it completely. hold your head high and end the friendship.
2006-09-05 02:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by Laura B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just feeling hurt and embarrassed. If they are y9ur friends they will believe you when u say why he is lying about u.
2006-09-05 02:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by Traci S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's very imature and isn't really your friend at all. sounds like he's black mailing you for sex. if you don't go farther with him , he's gonna ruin your reputation. what an Idiot. Lose him fast and don't look back. you don't need friends like that.
2006-09-05 02:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's such a loser....in these cases there are 2 solutions: either u don't care ( pretend so) or u have a discussion with him, explaining your position. if he doesn't understand, then take revenge...sure it's bad but it can help!!
2006-09-05 02:33:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him and he will stop when he realizes he can't phase you and your friends (if they are true friends) will ignore him too. there's no use wasting your time on that fool
2006-09-05 02:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by Smiles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then ask him whether wanna b ur sister
it's still sthg more than fren rite?
2006-09-05 02:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by nick b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your are not a child.so try to make him as your friend or cut his friendship.
2006-09-05 02:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by athens 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋