it takes me a long time to have an orgasim sometimes i dont even have one it takes me for ever it seems like am i doing something wrong
2006-09-05 01:59:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
call me and i will show u the way
2006-09-05 02:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think that you would be surprised to know that a lot of women do that. It is very rare for a women to have one through sex. Most of the time it is going to be from manual, oral, or adding other aids to the sex. Talk to your husband and let him know what is going on with you and find out what can be done to help you. I know that my husband can give me an orgasm during sex, but it is in only 1 position (hes sitting straight up and I'm on his lap facing him and being in 100% control) and there has to be a lot of foreplay. If it looks like I'm not going to have one with just him, then we will get my vibrator and use that as well. I will always have one, if not 2. Talk to your husband and find out if that will be something that you are willing to try. The more that you worry about it the less likely you are to have one. Once you can get a toy involved, or have a orgasm through other ways, the better chance you have of achieving one.
2006-09-05 09:49:06 · answer #2 · answered by brittme 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with "Tiffany". I make sure my woman is satisfied before I climax. As mentioned before, have him go down on you and do oral or masturbate together. Maybe you need to tell him how to touch you and were the right spot is. I'd hope he know where you g-spot is and clitoris. Not trying to be perverted...just honest. Good luck.
2006-09-05 09:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not at all. i barly ever have one from sex with my hubby its much harder for a female to have an orgasm from sex. try alot of oral or mutual masterbation to climax beforehand thats what i do now
2006-09-05 09:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by tiffany a 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes your conceitrating on trying to have one and worring about it when you should just get into the moment relax and enjoy what is going on stop thinking about it and it will happen.
2006-09-05 09:03:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
didnt ur mom ever tell u the missionary works best
2006-09-05 09:03:25 · answer #6 · answered by The Ego 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is he hung like a light switch
2006-09-05 09:02:56 · answer #7 · answered by researchtissue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more foreplay maybe required.
2006-09-05 09:03:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-09-05 10:50:20 · answer #9 · answered by waynekirsten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋