This man in his late 50's is a doctor right across my new home.He used to have a crush on my mum years ago before she married my dad, and now he is calling me. He is a quiet person, who smokes way too much, and makes suggestive remarks. He isnt a family friend, what should i do? It scares me.
2006-09-05 01:52:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Iv been telling him to leave me alone, iv even shouted down the phone, but he just keeps calm and carries on as if he hasnt heard me. Iv sowrn him, and told him to get lost.
2006-09-05 01:57:57 · update #1
If your scared you need to file a report with the local district attorneys office. If something every happens down the road you will have the report to verify that this has been happening for a while. You might also advise the old sicko that you have filed a report, this should put a stop to any further problems.
2006-09-05 01:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Record his phone calls so that you'll have proof. Get a small tape recorder you can carry around with you so if he makes suggestive remarks you have proof. Get a restraining order on him. Do not show any emotion when dealing with this individual, that's what he wants. Once you have him on tape let everyone hear what he's been saying. Your parents, other neighbors and the police. Get your phone number changed.
2006-09-05 02:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by ????? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time he contacts you, tell him in very clear terms that his advances are unwelcome and that any further attempts to contact you will be forwarded to the police as a report. If it happens again, you will have a paper trail enough to get a restraining order. After that, he can be charged with stalking.
2006-09-05 01:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Kick him in his nuts.
If that doesn't get his attention then kick in him in nuts again.
Kick him in his nuts.
And when he is laying on the ground tell him that you hate cigarettes and that he is disgusting to you.
If he doesn't understand that then kick him in his nuts again.
Please, do not surrender your power to this man.
Kick him in the nuts.
He won't call the police because no man wants to report that he has just been kicked in the nuts for inappropriate behavior.
He won't tell your folks for the same reason.
Kick him in the nuts.
2006-09-05 02:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by Temple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Document all the times and dates he bothers or calls you. Put a block on your phone or report to the phone company as a nuisance caller. Report him to the authorities as a stalker.
2006-09-05 02:06:31 · answer #5 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your parents about him and tell them of your suspicions. If he gets too suggestive you can call the police and tell them that he is harassing you. Do not , in any way encourage him by being friendly.
2006-09-05 01:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 22:38:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents immediately.If You are over 18 tell him to leave you alone. If he doesn't tell the police.
2006-09-05 01:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to leave you alone.It's that simple.If he keeps bothering you--go to your local authorities and file a complaint.
2006-09-05 01:56:10 · answer #9 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that you are uncomfortable when he speaks to you suggestivley and that you would appreciate it if he cuts it out that you are not interested in anything.
2006-09-05 01:56:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋