why do women have to be so grumpy, it seems that the more you do for them the more they expect.. are the words thank you and do you need any help not in their vocabulary.???
2006-09-05 01:39:30 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hey you are lucky you have a wife at all with that attitude! (lol)
2006-09-05 01:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by Gone fishin' 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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Depending on the job he chose is how long after graduation he will get assigned. You may want to consider a justice of peace BEFORE he joins otherwise it could cause issues with his orders. You stated he is infantry which means he will likely get basic and AIT together meaning when he gets orders to his new unit you will NOT be part of it. This could cause headaches for both of you. If he is immediately sent to Germany or something of that nature it will be difficult to get everything straightened out and the army moves at the speed of mud when helping soldiers and their families in the admin portions. Prepare for several weeks of limited contact. Infantry basic and AIT are no joke, he will be tired as hell and possibly grumpy. Hang in there, write him often but cut him slack on writing back. EDIT: One BIG piece of advice I can give you. Do not be like so many other army wives were when I was a soldier, do not treat female soldiers like they are out to get your man. They want to be friends with you, not just your husband. There will never be a better liaison as long as you are a military wife, a female soldier can and will tell you if he BSes you about military things.
2016-04-02 00:22:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...due to your young ages I highly recommend premarital counseling. Yeah, you think - we don't need that...well, statistically speaking - you do. Young marriages have a high failure rate and if you don't want to be part of it...premarital counseling. Add: Thumbs down all you want but I can't tell you how many "military" married girls/wives post here with the: My husband is getting violent and I think he may have PTSD (yet they have no idea what to do about it); I think my husband is cheating on me while on deployment; My husband comes home from the barracks on weekends and does nothing around the house; My husband comes home from the base each day and then plays video games all night long; My husband is violent and cheating on me but we have children and I don't work and I don't know how to leave....Seriously - get the counseling so you two can figure out how to work out issues in a responsible way so you don't have to come back posting the same stuff here...Better yet - do a YA search and look at it for yourself.
2016-03-18 23:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This only applies to a few select people. I don't like your generalization. Maybe you should speak to your wife and let her know that her grumpiness is rubbing off on you. -- A word of advice, don't give of yourself so much that there is nothing left for you. In order to give better advice maybe you should post more information.
2006-09-05 01:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes when you end up with an unsatisfactory partner you have to wonder if you made a wrong choice. In which case it was you who allowed your clouded judgement to dictate the way you would spend a significant portion of your life. If in the event you made a good choice and she "changed" then you have to ask yourself how you changed. It could have a significant impact on her behavior. Maybe you are giving her things but not the right things.
2006-09-05 01:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try sitting you wife down, and very calmly explain how you feel, or sometimes writing a letter is best. She might feel some resentment towards you or something and when you do something nice for her, she is still resentful and then it comes across that she isn't appreciative. Good luck
2006-09-05 01:43:19 · answer #6 · answered by Bec 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you met and married a bad one. 10 bucks says she was not like this when you first met. She changed shortly after the wedding, right? I think talking to her will be your best bet. More than likely she will start an argument with you. Don't fall into the trap. If she becomes defensive, which she will, then say, "I just wanted to let you know what I feel, that's all. I'll keep my feelings to myself if you don't want to hear them". Then drop it altogether. This should help.
2006-09-05 01:44:40 · answer #7 · answered by El Pistolero Negra 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not exactly sure why she is grumpy.....but just try to be really really nice............but.....don't let her take advantage of you. You may have to yell at her a little to make her realize that you won't stand for being disrespected.
2006-09-05 01:42:04 · answer #8 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a tough one for me. I say thank you for everything. When my husband does the dishes, puts them away, makes dinner, cleans up, anything that he does, I thank him for. Plus, I go an extra mile to say what a fabulous job he did!! I hope that he returns the favor when I do something. He never does, but I still love him!!
2006-09-05 01:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by BostonSportsFan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you grumpy........ you should tell your wife about your little problem, because it could create bigger problems. I think you are generalizing women, I am very appreciative of my husband and everything he does for me.....
2006-09-05 01:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by Dre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow im impressed an actual question.. .lol.. Treat her like a queen and say yes dear to everything and all will be good lol.. even if it is copied from someone elses lol
2006-09-05 01:47:34 · answer #11 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋