I. I even use to tell him that now I am in loo, now I am eating, now on stairs…..on Sundays my cell phones use to be switch off but if he find it on then he use to question for whom you have switched it on. I never lie to him but I don’t understand why he doesn’t trust me…when I ask him he says that he trusts me fully, then why he behaves like this. I never hide anything from him. From the first day I met him I told him all the truth but the day he met me I always found him lying to me but I always forgave him. I left everything even my family, city, relatives, friends, everything for him and he too left every thing. He always ask how dare you to speak to your that friend I explained him thousands of time but he keeps on digging the past. Few days back I went to the doctor I asked him to come with me in the inspection room twice but he said that I am coming but didn’t came in, in the meanwhile dr. came in and started inspecting me. When I asked him why have u not came in, he blamed me
2006-09-05 01:22:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Marriage is mutual trust. One sided trust would lead you nowhere. You can seek the help of your and his family members. there is no harm trying out. You should fix it and for good. It should not linger on or your life would be in doldrums.
All we can say is good luck and act hard.
2006-09-05 01:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me as if ur in a very petty situation. But, it is never to late to say no ur problems. He has been lying to u while u have been trying to save the relationship since past a long time. Relax & think over the matter again. After that ask ur heart. If ur heart says that he is not the right person for u then dump the relationship. Every parent loves their daughter. U can always go back to them & ask them for help. Or try & resort to any old friend of urs whom u can really trust. Till then have the guts & face the current situation but while taking the right descision dotn be under any kind of pressure.God Bless u.
2006-09-05 07:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by Trupti A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like his is afraid of losing u...u need to keep talking and be honest all the time...u have done the courting and now settling down together can take up alot of energy...
Try not to do the things that he gets upset about and try to find some quality time to do special things together...
When someone has done things themselves and lied...they feel guilty and tend to find fault in others to hide their feelings...
Why don't u ask him....
Why are u being like this... it sounds like u r feeling guilty about something?
Tell him u don't have anything to hide and everything i have is here in front of u.
Tell him that when he used to lie about things u never made a big issue about it and always loved him....
The magic to keeping a relationship strong is good communication, to be honest and to accept change throughout..
Think about it...it would be a shame to lose each other bcus u both do love each other alot..otherwise u wouldn't have left everything behind..
The other thing....does he need ur support towards a career? Tell him that money is not that important either...u need him.
Good luck!
2006-09-05 02:23:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he regrets having left everything and instead of actually saying it he is blaming u and wants to break this relationship with u because he left all that for u. i am sorry but unless the two of u talk this through and get some counseling things will definitely not get better. dont wait till u get pregnant and think it will work out. things will probably only get worse and he may get violent.
2006-09-05 15:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by mayami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to sit down with him and talk the things out only that can help , because you have already made them angry who would have helped you out of this mess . every day before sleep and after dinner make a routine to give eachother at least half an hour so that you two disscus the day and try to understand carefully eachothers feelings and sentiments.
2006-09-06 02:04:41 · answer #5 · answered by gunchu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you have to mention that wath is your age and his. if you have a big gap then he is feilling inscure about you. scond thing that you two have to talk each others in good mood. are take vacation for a month and satisfie him that i love you more then my self. ithink he is felling that you have some connection with other boy. only this is a thing make him inscure. possibly.
best of luck
2006-09-05 02:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in a bad situation and I'm sorry. It sounds like your guy may be feeling guilty for something. It is important that you two talk. Good luck.
2006-09-05 01:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by noahshappy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 08:15:56 · answer #8 · answered by ehinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is finding reasons now to dump you cause he feels guilty for leaving his family behind for you. And he might think now "it's not worth it". Ask him, tell him what you feel...Tell him "if you blame me for having left your family for me, I set you free, you're ready to go back to them when you want cause I don't want you to think I'm the one who made you separate from your loved one. I never blamed you after I left my family, but if you feel I'm guilty, you're free to go. I don't want such a husband and I don't feel good with you not trusting me."
2006-09-05 01:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As per your story, u loved him madly, but he not loved u madly, he can enjoys with you. Time will decide the factor. cool and think and discuss with him in the pleasant mood.
2006-09-05 01:32:05 · answer #10 · answered by Somi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋