thanks for letting me see how horrid i am. you have no idea what my life was like, what my husband was like. now i have a use for that razor in my bathtub other than shaving my legs. thanks for helping me make up my mind.
2006-09-05 00:44:50 · 29 answers · asked by woman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Seek attention much? You are so immature it isn't even funny.
If the issue was just your husband, you could have left him and taken the kids, but you didn't. You waited until another guy came along and got yourself out and left your kids behind.
You had a lot of choices available to you, but you took the one that was best for you and to hell with everyone else. It's a lot easier to shack up with a new guy than to get a job and support yourself and your kids.
Then you want people to feel sorry for you because your husband got custody after you took off to another country to be with this guy.
P.S. It would take you about a week of non-stop cutting to kill yourself with a shaving razor, lol.
2006-09-05 02:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just saw the question prior to this, some people are so horrid. Why when a man leaves his children, he is then allowed to whine on about how unfair it is that they don't see their kids,( and more often than not, they left the marrital home for another woman) but when a woman does it, suddenly it is the worst crime in the world? A mother/wife has as much right to feel the need to have a break as a father/husband does. I am sorry that you lost custody, but now you must show your children that it wasn't them you left, just their father, it may take a long time, but as long as they know that you still care, then they may return to you when they can do so of their own free will. I'm sorry too that so many people said so many harsh things, they have obviously never been faced with a similar situation. Don't "abandon" them permanently, that is something they will never be able to get over, keep the razor for your legs only.
2006-09-05 00:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by rami #1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get some help, sweetie. You don't really tell anything here about your real situation, what your life was like and what you have going on in your brain. You can always off yourself. Do some research, get yourself into some therapy, if you have ever been on antidepressants, and they didn't work, you need to get with a doc who knows how to adjust your doses, and try cocktails of meds. Some that work for some people are useless on others. And remember, lots of people on this site have issues of their own that they just push into advise -- mother-in laws they wish would disappear, bad marriages, rotten kids, rotten parents -- the list is endless. Lots of people with huge problems and depression learn to realize that "don't sweat the small stuff---- and a subset of that is "everything is the small stuff"
2006-09-05 02:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing in a daughters life is sharing the birth of their children with their own mother. I am lucky enough to have had my mother there for all three of my children's births. Now my youngest is going on 4, I lost my mother to cancer last year to lung cancer. She was very close to my children and I thank the lord to have her in my children's life. I am telling you this from a daughters point of view. Your daughters will hurt terribly in their hearts when you are not there to share in their graduation,weddings and the births of their children. My mother always told me NEVER feel sorry for yourself and to think of others first. If you proceed to take your own life, that is being selfish. As for the responses to your other Q on here, I read them and yes you made a mistake. But life goes on with or without you. People WILL be terribly hurt by your death but why would you want to do that to the ones you love? Suicide is not a solution. Hey, I have problems with my hubby here and yeah I have left the house before including my children. I didn't do it to go with another man but I did leave my children. Us mothers need to get away once in awhile. The only thing you can do now is pick yourself up and GO! Start from scratch. The only difference is you have two VERY beautiful daughters to look after. They Need you!<------I looked at your 360 page! Your life is not over, move back to the states and find YOURSELF! You're a very attractive lady and there is opportunity for you in the future. You just have to be willing to work a little harder than most of us! If ya want to chat My Yahoo ID is colleen3273. And I advice you to call your doctor and schedule an appointment for a physical and discuss your problems with him/her. They can steer you in the right direction! Good luck!
2006-09-05 02:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by colleen3273 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol.. ok.. i just came on.. and i went back and read ur other question.. and because basically people told u this is what the consequences of your actions were ur now trying to make us feel bad because u made the wrong choices in your life? Sorry i dont feel bad for you, u are once again showing how your children mean nothing to you..cause 1. u already chose to abandon them atleast to a point that ur x husband got custody.. (Your choice) and 2. now u want to abandon them permenantly by suggesting suicide, again this is (YOUR CHOICE)
No one put a gun to your head and told u , u had to make these choices , u do so on you own.. Can u appeal for custody sure u can.. u can appeal as much as u want till their 18.. but the truth of the matter is, 99% of the time the judge will not take them from a stable home just because u have chose "NOW" that u made a mistake.. u'd have to prove ur x husband unfit in order to get ur children back.. and let me tell u something, if ur so unstable to write something so ignorant on this forum about the thoughts of suicide, (dont u realize if your x found out or someone that knows ur x found this he could use this against u and u'd neverrrrrrr get ur kids ) hun thats not showing that your stable and your children deserve someone that is.. And although ur looking for a Pitty Party , im not going to give it to u, cause u and i know your only looking for that and ur not really going to do what ur suggesting because people that are "serious" about suicide dont talk to people about it.. and why should we feel sorry for u??? we dont know u.. so ur not hurting anyone on here with ur "Poor pitiful me routine" only people u'd be hurting are ur kids, the ones that love you unconditionally even if u do have ur faults.. so why should we feel sorry for u, the only ones we feel sorry for are ur children because they are the ones getting hurt with all ur stupidity.. FACE IT.. u made wrong choices, so what are u going to do about it??????? Take the cowards way out???? OR U can get ur self together, get ur house together, do whatever it takes, to atleast come up with a really strong case to try and get your kids back, sure u may lose but atleast ur kids will know u tried when they get older... Your suppose to be their mom, THEY are suppose to ALWAYS be your top priority in ur life.. So deal with the choices YOU made.. learn from your mistakes.. And Make the Best of what choices u have made.. but other then that STOP ACTTING LIKE A SPOILED LITTLE BRAT AND START ACTTING LIKE A GROWN WOMAN WITH KIDS ..
2006-09-05 01:14:17 · answer #5 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, well, before you start believing these well meaning folks, try something REAL like a doctor. If you're out of control and see no way out, pick up the phone, call 911 and tell them how you feel. They'll come and take control of your life until you're ready to do it by yourself again. People do care.
BTW, some of you people are HARSH! Remember what yo momma said, if you don't have anything constructive to say, don't say anything at ALL!
2006-09-05 12:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have strong feelings about mothers who abandon their children. Even a junkyard dog won't do that.
Your new question is just another childish, self-centered, sefl-pitying post. You included NO information about your homelife, and still have not. Was it so bad you had to dump the kids? All we know is a judge agreed you should NOT take care of them.
I'd say your kids are lucky to be rid of you.
Don't ask the question if you don't want to hear the answer.
Get help. You sound like you shouldn't be on the streets.
2006-09-05 00:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone makes mistakes and yes, people on yahoo answers were a bit harsh, but you have to face the problem. Your children need you right now. They are going through a lot right now. Their parents are getting divorced, they are not going to see their mom so much anymore and now you want to go and slash your wrists!!!Dont do it. You made a mistake, now you can fix it. Try to compromise with your husband and your boyfriend and things can work out. There's always a way out, but your way is not helping any bit. Think about your children. They dont need this **** in their life right now. WORK IT OUT!!!DONT QUIT SO EASILY!!
2006-09-05 01:13:46 · answer #8 · answered by Jade22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Asking questions online doesn't always get us the right answers, and you're right, we don't know much of anything about your situation or what it was like.
Suicide is never the answer, you really should consider calling the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at 1-800-784-2433 and if you have been abused please also talk to the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. They can help.
2006-09-05 00:58:11 · answer #9 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut your crap, lady… I have enough problems in my life without apologising for your mistakes!!!
You made them… You accept responsibility for them.
Don’t you dare try to lay the blame on us!!!
I read your previous questions, and the responses you were given were what you should’ve expected.
If it had have been your husband who deserted your kids… you would have agreed with the responses you were given!!!
You reckon we have no idea of what your life or your husband were like…
Who’s fault is that?
If you can’t explain yourself properly in your questions… Don’t blame us!!!
If you want to find another use for that razor blade of yours, then go ahead, and do what you believe you have to do.
The rest of us will continue life doing the things that we believe we have to do!!!
At least when people get on here and ask for help, we will continue to try to help them.
Where will you be???
2006-09-05 00:54:10 · answer #10 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋