If your wife had bf before marriage, that’s u find after marriage how can you react on your wife
2006-09-05 00:09:25 · 16 answers · asked by yes/no 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
so what.. everyone has a past... were u all saintly? i don't think so...
all that matters is that she loves you now.. she's YOUR wife, not his... so leave it be.. she probably didnt tell you coz she didnt wanna lose you..
respect that everyone is different, respect that she's been loyal to you.. and move on
2006-09-05 00:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends. If I had told her that I had a gf before marriage and she hasn't told her story, then that hurts. But if i am sure that she loves me now and doesn't contact her bf anymore, most probably I would accept. Additionally, if I find out that she still keep in touch or have a relationship with her bf or cherishes past memories with him then that would be unacceptable. Sorry I am not that open minded :)
2006-09-05 23:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by shan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should tell you before marriage if she cannot that means she loves u more then her first bf &may be she don't want to heart u or loose u. you should ask her why she didn't tell u. if she still engaged with him then you should leave her but if she does not have any conection with him after your marriage then you should trust her & love her more then anything .b'cause she did really great job.
2006-09-05 17:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought of that before you got married.
Your investigation was not OK.
As now you have come to knwo, I believe you should forget the past and think about the present and plan for the future.
Best wishes
2006-09-05 07:17:56 · answer #4 · answered by itsme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please remember all reactions are individualized and depends upon the nature of the person. My profession involves studying human reaction in different situations and they can be broadly categoriezed into 4 category and it can be further subdivided into 4 categories each. So only after understanding his style the same may be predicted.
2006-09-05 07:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by Abhijit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does not affect me. If she and her ex are still good friends, all the better.
I believe that "Love is a Subject to be cherished, not an Object to be possessed". So long as I have her love, why should I care?
2006-09-05 07:16:01 · answer #6 · answered by ks_anand_77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now its OK , one should not dig the graveyards to think and feel bad and unhappy . No explanation / no discussion , let life be move on . One should remember his past also .
2006-09-05 07:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more u'll think the more u'll be in pain
Its better not to think about this, as this is past now see ahead 4 the better future 4 both of u.....
2006-09-05 10:17:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anil Verma 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget the past and look in the future, even if they are friends its alright.... as long as she loves you and you love her....
dont be too possesive of her and be a good husband, and she will be good and give all the love to you
2006-09-06 05:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by lil d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as for as she is loyal to you you should not matter. i know friends who have married call girls and leading a very happy married life. just dont bother
2006-09-05 07:27:56 · answer #10 · answered by venkat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋