I have a friend named amy B. I have knowen her for 3 years and we are just friends. I asked her out but she turned me down because she thinks she is still in love with her last boyfriend. What should I do??? I am 16 turning 17 in oct 29.
2006-09-04 23:52:42 · 16 answers · asked by Robert F. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dude wait it out, trust me become her friend even more... right now if you realy like her you want to be teh guy she comes to, the guy she crys on the phone to the shoulder she leans on.. you know you've seen the movies... eventually if ur actually there for her she'll realize why the hell is she crying over this idiot who doesn't seem to realize how special she is when she's had you all along...
trust me its what i did, i waited 5 years to get my gf and i couldn't waited another 10 for this girl... we've now been goin out for 2½ years and i am trying to figure out how to ask her to marry me... plus ur young man.. give it time
2006-09-04 23:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by cflames_fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A similiar thing happened to me when I was your age but in the end I married her and have 2 kids. Just give her some room right now and when you feel she is more available then approach her (carefully) again. In the meantime keep your eyes open and date some other girls.
If that doesnt work, date some boys and tell her she pushed you to the "other side".
2006-09-05 00:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by aa7im 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not sure about her feelings... Though, it was very honest of her telling you the truth! She could just pretend, only to make her ex-boyfriend jealous!!! Give her time.... ask her out - tell her friendly- try to cheer her up... Show her that you really care.... Don't try to have anything more but friendship.... You can not even imagine how much she will appreciate that.....!!! Show her what a wonderful person you are....! But be careful: if you try to get profit of her and she is still not sure about her feelings you might louse her forever..............
2006-09-05 00:22:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u re pretty young, my friend....if she is stuck to her ex, then u should give her time to get over this!! i think u should not make a move till the things get clearer...trust me...i have been put through to a similar experience...i know how u feel...but wait firstly a little time and then act! if she's still stuck, sorry...but haven't u thought that maybe she wants to protect Ur friendship?? maybe she wants u and her to be only friends! that's the most sensible explanation for me...think bout it...if u need further help, u can contact me, i love helping people...( okkas23@yahoo.com)
2006-09-05 00:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ma man u gat to cheer up.its harder 2 date somaone u klose to dan someone u barely even knw.dats laif u knw so u gat to move on n get urselve a gal who luvs u.i think amy rily laiks u dats y she told ya da truth cos u aint gonna laik it if she was datin u n also seein her last boyfriend
2006-09-05 00:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by shilo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of help do you need. Get over it and move on, life is full of rejection. The more chances you take, the more rejection you get but also the further you get.
2006-09-05 00:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by mama mia! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be a friend to her for the time being and when she comes around she might let u have a date just be patience
2006-09-04 23:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by ~*~ Stormy Weather~*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre young.. find a new Amy :)
2006-09-04 23:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by Serious Mandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No use waiting around for her. move on. there's an army out there u haven't even sampled. who knows!!!
2006-09-05 00:08:34 · answer #9 · answered by lynksx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, she's told you to, just find someone else to love.
2006-09-04 23:57:34 · answer #10 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋