2006-09-04 23:37:58 · 17 answers · asked by Olivia G 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Congrats! My mom always said the first child can come anytime...after that it takes 9 months. Ok so he didn't want kids yet. Well it's a little late for that. Tell him before it becomes a matter of you keeping it from him. Keeping something from some one you love is just asking for trouble.
2006-09-04 23:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by johnsmom326 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did he say this before or after you found out?
How do YOU feel about being pregnant?
At the end of the day, you ARE pregnant and considering you are married, and I presume, in a loving relationship, then any problems can be ironed out.
If it is you that does not want children yet, then you have decisions to make. If it is just your husband, then you need to talk to each other.
Whatever you decide, make sure the decision is yours alone, do not feel pressured into anything just to keep your man happy.
Lots of luck
2006-09-04 23:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by sarah b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't want kids yet then you both would have used protection, and if you did use something then it's time to have a baby. I didn't want kids when I had my first , and we did use protection. So just tell him, he will be scared at first but should warm up to being a daddy real soon. Good luck.
2006-09-04 23:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by freyed2000 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i agree its too late never consider abortion as one of your options you will regret it and its a capital sin you will go to hell. how do you feel? what is he gonna do? he better accept it. I hope the best for you two marriage is a big step and having a baby is a great joy do not let him hurt you in anyway you decide what you want this baby is also a part of you and it will bring you so much happiness you will see. your baby is alive the minute he or she was conceived do not take that away your little angel deserves to live and it picked you for his mommy.
2006-09-05 00:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 08:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by ehinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congrats,u don't give up 4 him.give birth to that cute,lovely child.after the birth he will know how the babies are.Ur lucky to have a child as so many didn't get.after the birth u mail me abt Ur child. bye
2006-09-04 23:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a little late for that now. Didnt you two ever talk to each other? If so, you would think that he would've already mentioned he didnt want any children.
2006-09-05 09:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by Terri H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that u guys have one on the way, hes going to have to accept it and if he loves you he will stay with you even if he doesnt want kids, i wish u the best of luck
2006-09-05 00:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh well he's got a few months, the baby isnt here yet!
2006-09-04 23:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by Claire O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have talked about this together long before you were married! Congrats!
2006-09-05 01:20:15 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋