my girlfriend cheated me... i was with her in all her bad times now when am not doing well in my career she wants to leave me... never ever thought she would say something like this i was with her all the time... now she want to have a secured life with a powerfull man who is very well settled(she said)!!!! all false promises.... she is a doctor and am an engineer... she is still in touch so before she leaves me i want her to realise..
2006-09-04 23:30:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Local Businesses ➔ India ➔ Bangalore
Do u really need a woman who sells herself for money?
Do u need a woman who is a downright FoOL? Only Fo0ls, with a few low animal cunning, cheat people. A really intelligent woman with proper education is usually good hearted.
Aren't u lucky that u r cheated before you'r marriage? I have seen several 'after' cases.
A man must be very astute. How could she fool u for so long? U should had deserted her much before.
Do marriages with powerful and setteled men always ensure a secured life? In most cases such men r greedy and claims endless amounts of dowry. A really powerful man is going to have too many women around himself. Usually they care very little for the woman at home. They treat them worse than bonded labourers . I have seen a few such men.
Love is nothing but a complicated interaction of social interests
and biochemical reactions with in human body, carefully sugar coated by society to serve social purposes. Poets usually praise best sort of misunderstandings between pairs of idiots.
Finally, r u in software industry? If not get in 2 it. Then choose the right technology to learn, work hard for next 5 years, switch jobs wisely, take serious interest in stock and metal market, and believe me, after 5 years u urself will be a very very powerful man. In this society there are only 3 powerful things, money, intelligence and hard work.
If her memory disturbs u ever, go alone for long drives, read strange topics like history of human right violation, history of world wars, about wicked politicians, secret services, scary ghost stories. See scary horror films and gory war films. Take membership of a rifle shooting club, it's not very costly. Swim for long hours. It's very refreshing. Ever tried swimming in seas at nights? U feel better than f_c_i_g any woman. U have to be a very good swimmer.
Do u still think u should punish a 3 penny filthy fOoL who can't build her career and seeks for social security through matrimony?
U dont. Because u r not a FoOL.
2006-09-10 09:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by binaryFusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why she's still in touch if she's got someone else and you 2 have split.She's a gold-digging *****,who's never going to be happy with what she's got.Count your blessings that you found out what sort of person she is now,instead of later.Your career will improve and you'll find someone better.Put on a brave face and pretend you don't care,invent a new girlfriend if you have to.Good luck and have a great life
2006-09-05 07:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you did for her, take it as your parting gift to her. May be it is for good. Learn from the school of life and build on for better relationships in the waiting. Your good deeds should be your strength and you should be proud to have lived a true well-wisher relationship for someone you loved.
Move on with new energy and confidence; and take this relationship collapse in your stride as a cycle of meeting and leaving. Forget teaching any lessons to her and test your strengths in this dimension of your life.
Time is great healer. Allow it to work on you positively.
2006-09-05 14:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by helpaneed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not for you to teach her a lesson. you need to feel lucky that she was honest with you and is leaving you instead of continuing to cheat on you. its not like anyone deserves a lesson for having a change of heart, although im sure she has hurt you deeply. trust kharma and get on with getting over her. the best revenge is to live a fulfilling life without her.
2006-09-05 06:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by Eos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No , no , the best thing to do is not to teach her a thing , she is nothing and deserves nothing ...
The biggest lesson here for her is you don't do a thing about it like she means nothing to you ...
I don't know for how long you've been togther , but i think you should have noticed that on her so you wouldn't got in toooo deep with her ........ good luck man !
2006-09-05 07:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by shady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as this sounds, For your own sake you are going to have to forgive her.
2006-09-05 08:09:20 · answer #6 · answered by concerned christian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't believe any girls!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-06 16:57:00 · answer #7 · answered by Ranjith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋