this is gonna be kinda long, since i think the background is important(sorry).
I am supposed to be a recovering heroin addict. My mother knows, since i told her and my stepdad, so i could get into some kind of drug rehab program (Im under their medical insurance plan). Well, Im in outpatient treatment,waiting to get into inpatient.
Today i did a lot of cocaine, and my mother knew as soon as she saw me that I was planning on getting drugs (she can tell by now).She doesnt know what drugs, but she just 'knows' when im going to do it. She left me a really sad message on my cel. phone saying simply that i cant fool her;then she called me and basically told me that she knows what im doing,etcetera. she didnt yell at me or anything, she was just sad.worried.despair has a tight grip on her heart. apologizing would be stupid and meaningless.
i really dont know what to tell her when i see her.
anyone with a similar experience?i need insight.
im emotionally constipated.
2006-09-04 23:14:33 · 6 answers · asked by NeedMedicalHelp!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well, if you had ANY desire to STOP doing drugs (eeww) then you will take your moms comfort and love and support in a heart beat! If you keep doing drugs, YOU WON'T HAVE A HEART BEAT!
I suggest that you just blert out everything to your mom. Since your brain is not functioning well at this time. Let her help you!
She sounds very calm about what your doing and that is a good thing. You wouldn't want her yelling at you right? because you'd probably want to never talk with her. So she is expressing her feelings about this with you in a sad voice. She's telling you that she dis likes what your doing but also letting you know through the TONE of her voice, that she is WANTING to help you! Listen to her, Let her help you!
Stop doing drugs. They will NOT get you anywhere in life. I know it's easier said than done. But I pray for you and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Please listen to your mom. Let her take care of you!
You are putting a price on your life(or limit) but your mom is PRICELESS! ( UNLIMITED )
2006-09-04 23:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by Cherries 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I have not been it that situation exactly; but something similar! The only way to go about this is honesty. Rehab isn't going to help you; if you are not honest with the people who love you! Just like, the first step to getting help, is admitting you have a problem. It sounds like you already know that! Now you just have to work on the honesty part. Just say, "Mom, i know that you know me better than i know myself; I have a really big problem.I can't say no to drugs. I'm an addict! I need your support to get well! Will you support me? I'm really sorry this hurts you; but you need to know the truth." I hope this helps you!! Good luck....
2006-09-05 03:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of a great style of folk the two aspects, while relationship attempt to make themselves out to be something they are no longer for a quick time. i think of they suspect there is this particular expectation that they are in a position to in no way upward thrust as much as so as that they attempt to be greater desirable than who they are. Which consistently finally ends up badly while the two events discover out who they are literally, human beings could merely enable go of their reservations and be themselves on the initiating.
2016-09-30 08:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by kuhlmann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let go of drugs before you end up on the pavement my boy. That's what happens to drug addicts in the end !
2006-09-04 23:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by Bachelor boy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
tell her "mom wanna try?"
2006-09-04 23:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by jack 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
o now you diint.
2006-09-04 23:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by ................................ 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋