Is house more important than love?

Question

Here is the situation in Beijing, many of my girl-friends just break up with their boyfriend because the boy don't have enough money to buy house.
It's very expensive to buy an apartment here in Beijing. I think if you love the boy, you should work hard together with the boy to have the ability to buy the house, not just choose some one who can buy a house. Is house more important than love? I meant you still have decades to live together with him and you two have time to make money together, and love is the most important thing in marriage.
Why are girls need so much. I myself a girl, but I can't understand them so much.

What's the situation in you city? How do you think about it?

Answer 1

You're right about the situation in Beijing where most young
people place housing more important than love. Their priority
for houses is very high up due to the expensive cost of owning
an apartment and love will come in later.
As for me, I think love is also equally important and I would not
compromise anything with love. In my city, houses are also
important, but if you find love first, then love is more important
than a house.

Answer 2

From my point of view, everyone's different. In you and your friends' situation, you have to decide whether you think living in your own house, or love is more important. For some people, love may be more important, and they'll find some other way to live. For others the security of their own house is more important than love.

On the other hand, some people won't have to choose between the two and will love a man that can afford a house. And some people will realize that they'd like to live somewhere else, where it's not so hard for good men to own their own house :)

In my town most of the people are college students and are too poor to buy a house. When everyone is poor and everyone is busy, it's not what you have that matters, it's who you have :)

Answer 3

financial security is very important to the modern person. regardless of nationality, (in the U.S. it's the same) though I'd love to say that love conquers all, that is not the case. But yes, if two people really do love each other and genuinely do want to succeed, then the sky is the limit. But it even one is a lazy slacker, then it won't work period. Having been to China, (mainland and Taiwan) two things are true, they're both overpopulated and a living is hard to come by. It does take the efforts of both parties involved to make things work.think about that and your own personal goals before you decide on a path.

Answer 4

You are right, love is the most important thing on earth - but consciously selfless love, not blind love.
The matter of housing is a great difficulty everywhere in the world, so the two loving hearts should learn to mutually overcome it as well as many other inevitable difficulties in their family life.

Answer 5

I agree with you.
In Greece appartments are not so expensive I guess. Many couples live together. However, Greeks do not earn much, so most of the times there are financial problems. Some people can hardly earn their food.

Answer 6

As you say houses are very expensive I agree with you
Love is a lot harder to find . It is a lot easier with 2 incomes .
I think it is the same everywhere.If the husband and wife work
They will get a house faster than by themselves

Answer 7

i don't get the question. Love OR domicile, is that what you mean? nicely, i'm a romantic, so of direction i've got faith love is maximum serious. i'm engaged to a guy who has a degenerative recommendations ailment, very uncommon, no medical care, and that i pick to stay through fact i like him. i don't think of he'd be w/me if he have been nicely...he says he's in no way enjoyed everybody like he loves me yet in keeping with risk it rather is b/c i will stay w/him. i think, stay like u might desire to be lifeless the next day reason any individuals might desire to.

Answer 8

A lot of girls are looking for someone to "lift" them out of their situation.

Answer 9

What is u`er opinion?