how can u hate and love at the same time?

Answer 1

Acquire yourself a well paid and at the same time slogging job. After sometime you hate your job because of the deadlines to meet, very busy schedule, no personal life,grumpy boss etc. Now you are in a love/hate position. You hate your job but, you love the money it pays.You want to quit but donot want to. Because, you love the money it pays.Trust me, any software techie or a senior level call centre employee would vouch for this.

Answer 2

I am sure it's impossible to love & hate at the same time!!U can be enraged with someone,quarrel with someone and at the same time love this person. Hatred brings only destruction. If u really love each other, u should be more positive, take every quarrel like a lesson, and when your emotions calm down try to solve a problem, not postpone it to next quarrel, otherwise it will be a great pile of unsolved problems and as result love TRANSFERS into hatred.

Answer 3

True love doesn't have an opposite........hatred isn't the opposite of Love
There are feelings of "love" that come and go and that can be quickly replaced by hatred...one day I feel I love someone than they do something to me and I now hate them and on and on and back n forth......but this isn't true Love. This love can be a glimpse of the Real though.

That which comes and goes is certainly "real" but it has no independent reality of it's own.....true Love is there underneath the coming n goings of impermanent biological emotions......true Love is the immovable sky....hate and what is called love these days are the clouds........

Answer 4

Hate u for asking this question
And
Love u for giving me 2 points!

Answer 5

hate the things people do, but Love the people who do them, just like God does on a regular basis with us.
He despises those things that are perversions of His perfect design and will for our lives but His Love was made known to us in the sacrifice of His Son. Who was peirced for our iniquity and then rose again to conquer death-the required judgement for our transgressions against our Most Perfect Father.
but if we don't ask forgiveness, How then can we ever accept the sacrifice of Love that is so evident in this?

God bless you and hold you so close in His arms guiding you in Love, Forgiveness, and Grace.

Answer 6

we love but at the same time we hate for few things thats y it is possible

Answer 7

" Oh Father, forgive them because they know not what they do"--. everybody knows this divine sentence ever told by the Great Master. Don't u hear echo of this beautiful sentence everyday in Ur heart. He loved the doers at the same time not their deeds.

Answer 8

Not sure, but I know I've been there. My mom once told me, when I was younger, that "hate is closer to love, than love itself." I have to say that I agree.

Answer 9

Love has no opposite, as it means complete surrender to oneself, and to another which you see as an extension of your own Self.

This means that if you really loved a person there would be no reasons to hate him or her, as you won't love them otherwise, so dig within and find how deep your love is as well as your hate, as one of them isn't true. Neediness can also mimic as love sometimes, as it compels us to start making compromises in life, like in a job we hate, but are there still only because it provides us with the financial security and the status that we need. The same is true for most relationships today, we stay on because we want security and comfort of being in a relationship, and we can’t stand being alone, as that might be marked as some kind of personal failure. So instead we enter into second-rate relationships and jobs without even bothering to listen to our hearts, which eventually would and always does lead us to our perfect jobs, loves and relationships that heal, nurture and empower us, and eventually to one true love of our life, our own inner self. Now to change all that, let’s first build on our primary relationship, the one we have with our own self.

As for the rest, jobs, careers and other relationships will all happen on the side, once our primary relationship is well and working with ample love and respect in it. No doubt it is the one true and lasting relationship we will ever make throughout our lifetimes, so if that is not working, it will reflect on every aspect of our life and it won’t work no matter how hard we might try external, as they say the source is always within us and that is what we have got to fix it first, so ask yourself how did you attract this present relationship or job in your life, as it is a true reflection of what you think of yourself, so when we think deserve better we get it. Life always gives us not want we want but what we believe we deserve.

In relationships where fear is present, our inability to speak up turns into hate and our unwillingness to let go of that relationship mimics as love as we don’t want to be alone. And fear is usually of loosing ‘the another’ or their love or feeling unsafe to speak up or express our true emotions, because when if we did then we won’t have anything to fear or to hate.

Hate only indicates the presence of fear in our relationship; fear usually masks itself as hate when we can’t express it freely within a relationship.

So if you are feeling unable to express your fear, discomforts and even annoyances freely to your partner, ask yourself whether there is any respect in the relationship, as that is the first step to love.

When we don’t find any reasons to hate or dislike someone or be indifferent to, we reach that natural state in a relationship which we call love, a feeling of oneness without the need to hold on or fear loosing as then what you really have is your own self. So if you fear loosing another and loosing yourself, you haven’t really found yourself or true love either.

So first find your self, true love will automatically find you.

Answer 10

Love one and hate another.!!