2006-09-04 21:28:50 · 12 answers · asked by marie p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes, it can be possible. Everyone makes mistakes in life.
2006-09-04 21:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly hope so because I am travelling down this path at the very moment.
My husbands affair (and mental breakdown) happened at the end of May. We are slowly, very slowly, taking baby steps.
Things can be great some days but then I get hit in the gut suddenly with the thought of him with her.
It doesn't help that he is also recovering from a nervous breakdown (hence the reason he had the affair - I like to think anyway) - so his depression is huge anyway.
2006-09-04 22:00:51 · answer #2 · answered by zuj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going thru this at the moment and it is extremly difficult. While he vows never to hurt me again, I hurt myself daily with ifs buts and whys, Yes I think he probably can and will be faithful again, but right at this moment I am thinking of getting out because i am now hurting him by being an uptight miserable cow, still dragging up the past, still asking why and very much not trusting him, hes away alot and i worry myself so much, at the moment hes away for a week up the hills with a girl and 3 fellas and its driving me mad, he is a natural flirt and at times makes me laugh when its with a librarian signing out his books but the thought of him being in a bothy with her makes me panic and sick, no i dont trust any one sorry all u great girls out there. Yes go for it if you think u can but i warn u you'll end up hurting yourself more than he ever did!
2006-09-04 22:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO,been down that path with him more times than I care to discuss.Its a breach of a faith not to mention he has broken a written ,signed and notarized certificate of marriage that has been publicly recognized by city and state,and maybe the church ,too.(In some states it s considered law breaking to have an affair with someone when you are legally bound to someone else.)
But it is really up to the man himself AND the wife he stepped out on,do they truely want the marriage to work and are you will to forgive and forget,possibly for a lifetime of hoping your the one and only.
2006-09-04 22:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by nighneev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know of the saying once beaten twice shy-yes i have friends who have gone down that lane and now they are very happy with their patners-it all depends on an individual if he really loves the other and totally agrees to mend his ways!
2006-09-04 21:49:31 · answer #5 · answered by WaChristy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience, no. Why is it he cheated in the first place? Has that reason totally disappeared and won't come back again.
2006-09-04 21:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No once hes cheated he can never be trusted again hes more likely to cheat again belive me
2006-09-04 21:57:42 · answer #7 · answered by sammlwrd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I'am sorry I dont. The trust is gone, you'll always wonder if he is lying, too much pain day in and day out.
2006-09-04 21:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by sher7us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in my opinion people can change but even though you forgive them its hard to trust a cheater sometimes it back fires and its like a pass to do it again
2006-09-04 21:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater!
2006-09-04 22:49:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋