i am 17 nd i am interested in boys nd a boy that i like wants to go out with me but my parents arent cool about it they dnt want me 2 have one nd if i do they want to give him 20 questions and totally torture him i dnt know what to do. someone please help me!
2006-09-04 21:21:01 · 10 answers · asked by A p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
let your parents go through him..... this way you won't feel any guilt about lying to your parents..... besides this is one good test to find out if the guy is worthy of you..... if he survives then make him your boyfriend.... having your parents approval is a good thing.... you wouldn't have to sneak out and stuff....
2006-09-04 21:44:20 · answer #1 · answered by <--tsk--> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say this. Talk to your parents in the most mature manner you can and present them your case. You'll need to gain experience in life making presentations for things you want. They'll probably go along with you, but make sure to tell them that you agree with them quesioning whomever you go out with.
I have to say that in my opinion, they're completely right to talk to the guy, if they're doing it because they love you, and I suspect that they are. I wish that more parents would do the same, especially dads, who should talk man to man and tell them to respect you and not seek to have sex. If some people don't have a dad, it is possilbe for a mother to do this.
I would ask them if you can bring him over to introduce him. Be thankful for your parents, understand them and continue to love them.
2006-09-04 21:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a good boyfriend who will accept to sit for the 20 questions and answer it truthfully and get your parents aproval and go all the way just because he loves you .
2006-09-04 22:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes its cool for you to have a boyfriend & if you'er parents know you well enuff they will trust that you wait to have sex know that your strong minded and can take care of you self if your boyfriend wants to try to have sex, I say yes you can have a boyfriend at 17 years old, but you should bring him over to your house more so that your parents can get to know him a lot better and if he really likes you he will go to meet your parents ok.
2006-09-04 21:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by jugheadbbb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would trust your parents they have a hundred times more experience in picking out the losers because they are older and have done it all before.
2006-09-04 21:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by TheExile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean u are at the age where u will want a bf i mean ur parents are going to want to ask question i dont thinkit will scare him off but its nothing wrong with that
2006-09-04 21:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by t t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a good bf ..who will love u of what u r & act like a good girl ..ur parents should know ... :D
2006-09-04 21:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by dodi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a BF without letting your parents know.
2006-09-04 21:22:24 · answer #8 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur ready to start dating go for it. u cant be a nun forever.
2006-09-04 21:23:16 · answer #9 · answered by The Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 16 and my parents don't want me to have one too...
soo i have one but they don't know ... lol
2006-09-04 21:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by Snow Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋