why do i feel no one ever agrees with me?

Question

i feel like whenever i say something or have an opinion no one ever agrees i feel wierd

Answer 1

That's just the way it is on here, don't pay too much attention to them, if you take a look at the question Jonathan Ross has put, most people who have answered him have nearly all got thumbs down, so it says it all doesn't it, there are a few on here that just enjoy ridiculing people for the sake of it, just ignore them, that's the best bet, the answers u get that are worth anything ar the ones who try to give you a fairly good or accurate reply, just take note of them, I do.

Answer 2

Hey there fella,

First up I would have to ask, who exactly is it that disagrees with you? Are these necessarily the people that you believe have the answers? If they are, perhaps you are talking to the wrong people.

The problem with the age that we live in, is that everyone has this very exact ideal of what the world is about. It bleeds individuality out of us.

When I was a teenager, I was the hugest reject imaginable. I just had to voice an opinion, and I would get ridiculed. By the time I got to university, I was terribly shy.

However, it seemed there I had finally found people, who, even if they did not agree with me, at least respected what I had to say.

My advice, is to keep saying exactly what you have to say now, only louder. Become more confident in your approach and act like a bulldog, don't let go!

If all else fails, go out and find someone that will listen, and most of all DON'T LET YAHOO! ANSWERS GET YOU DOWN!

Good luck, and if you have any ideas that you want to share, just send me an IM!

Answer 3

Hi drum_nbass,
Are you a musician? So am I. I'll tell you why, because whoever you hang out with is not in the same boat you are. You are probably highly capable of thinking on your own. Critical thinking is not something everyone is good at. If you tend to stand alone whenever you voice your opinion...forgive them for they are slow and simply trying to catch up:) You just need to give them time to think about what you said. No one ever agrees with me, and here's why: I am an Interactive Personality Type A. Take some personality tests on-line, and try and figure out who you are, and what really motivates you. Once you figure out your behavioral style, all kinds of questions will be answered for you. Take my word on it.

Answer 4

Join the bunch honey. I've been that way all of my life, but as GOD as my witness, which HE is, I will not change what I believe in for anyone, even those I love the most. I am an honest and loving person who has had a meaning in life from day one. I just recently found out what it was. It is still the same and will never change regardless of whether I am believed or not. It's not just agreeing, it's belief in the truth...........I know, most people think you're crazy, believe me I know, but I am more intelligent than people realize.....of course brilliance is the closest thing to insanity , correct........I don't care........~p~

Answer 5

maybe no one agrees with you and you know it. You're either an individual or trying to get the wrong type of people to agree with you so logically, you'd have to think like them to get them to agree with you.

Answer 6

start taking yourself seriously , of course your opinion matters, you just have to find the right way of getting it across. if someone cuts you of or doesn't listen , then do you really need to be around that person. i stuggled with this for years but in the end i thought hey sod you, learn to say no and treat yourself with respect, i you dont respect yourself no one else will. good luck : )

Answer 7

Maybe your opinions are a bit out there. Maybe you're the only one who is right. Don't know. Don't let it bother you, though! It's only a Q & A site.

Answer 8

Maybe you are special and others are unable to relate. No-one agrees with me either though so don't pay to mutch attention to what i say.

Answer 9

I disagree

Answer 10

i agree to disagree