Do I tell him or not?

Question

There's this guy who I really like ALOT and I don't know if I should tell him how I feel. We've known each other for three years now and we are good friends. I trust him with my life, and he knows almost everything about me. SO do I tell him how I feel or do I just keep the friendship alive and going!

Answer 1

Well honestly you should tell him no matter the outcome you wont regret it. A person only regrets not taking the chance. If you take a chance or risk and you even fail at it you are still happy you took it. You don't want to always look back on your life and wonder what if because it will always haunt you that you never took the chance. So just go ahead and tell him if he's as good of a friend as you say even if he doesn't feel the same way he'll still be there for you. Take the chance it will worth it.

Answer 2

If you've known him for three years then you should be able to trust him. Tell him how you feel and then everything should be ok, whether or not he feels the same. Good friends look out for each other :)

Answer 3

Girl I think it's best if you tell him how you feel before he gets taken. I know if you find out he's trying to talk to someone he'll come to you first seeing how you are his very close friend. So tell him before it's to late and he's liking someone else. That would be so terrible if he turns you down. I remember when I liked this close friend and when I came to tell him my feelings, he said that it was sweet but I'm liking someone right now. I was so hurt. I finally got over it though. Good luck and best wishes to you.

Answer 4

I think you should tell him and don't look back, you never know he might even feel the same and if not atleast you will not live with the what if. Even at that he can even possibly after you tell him start looking at you more than a friend if he hasnt yet!... Its possible, I was in the exact same position as you and in my case he did feel the same and now we are engaged! so goodluck!!!

Answer 5

Have a honest talk with him about your feelings ... good luck

Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel

Answer 6

Darling. You tell him as to how you feel the love which cherish in your heart for this guy. He will like to hear from you as he is a man and will naturally like to listen that you are his very nice sexy friend. Tell him all the feelings of love and sex and also when you do intercourseand sexy kisses and what you feel tell him every thing. You should tell him your respect for him and your emotion and sexual passion and the point of love is doing intercourse and sexual action..

Answer 7

I was basically in the same position you are. I say go for it. I told my friend how I felt and she told me that she had feelings for me to. If you don't say something you'll never know how he feels. Trust me. The only thing holding you back I bet is fear of rejection because you like him, right? Well you should also fear lonliness.

Answer 8

Since you know him for 3 years, than just tell him. Who knows he may feel the same.

Answer 9

Tell him.

Try playing it off .. having a normal conversation then BOOOM tell him -- 'you know, im starting to have feelings for you' look at him dead straight in the face and smile, like nothing happened.
and then be like, 'oh do you mind changing the channel or something' haha.

AHAHAH iono. I like playing games with guys. But you dont have to do that .. I just felt like saying that.

But yeah gurrrrl go tell him. [=

Answer 10

I think u must know what u are heading to. I mean u know him REALLY well? Just be sure 'bout it. Seek ur heart's counsel. Pray for an answer. All the best to u.