Well I am a preety intelligent girl and Im well sorta and a tom-boy trapped in a girly girls body. And at the start of the year when i first started highschool i made the mistake of not being myself then a couple of months ago i opened up and started to act more like myself ie; kicking the footy with the guys playing more rough in sports you know.. So then i started getting called nasty names by the guys because i was getting better than them at some sports and the girls were calling me names like sl**s and sk
*anks because i was hanging around with the guys
in the end i never win
WHY CANT THEY EXCEPT ME FOR WHO I AM? :(
2006-09-04 20:56:56 · 6 answers · asked by j0-j0-- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
p.s i deeply appreciate all the answers i get it helps me alot and makes me feel alot better thanks :D
2006-09-04 21:09:01 · update #1
Just ignore them, strangers opinions don't matter because they don't love you or have your best interests at heart. All they're doing is projecting their own insecurities onto you, and showing the world how hurt and scared and confused they are. Once you realize that no one else can tell you who you are, then you're free to follow your own passions and dreams in life, and become someone wonderful. The response to them is: "Why would I care what you think, your criticisms mean nothing to me?"
2006-09-04 21:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Small minds with a major case of immaturity unfortunately. The boys are scared you might be better than them and they can't handle that. The girls are mad cause the boys are paying attention to you. Personally I think the dimwits are scared that they'll become the butt of the scorn and jokes like you are right now. FORGET THEM,their NOTHING. What they say has no merit or substance. Hang in there and good luck.
2006-09-05 04:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who is different from the mainstream will get teased and harassed by stupid, ignorant, and fearful people.
It gets somewhat better as you get older. By the time you're ready to graduate from high school, most of your peers will have matured a bit. If you go on to university, you'll find that educated people -- though they definitely have their own prejudices -- are less threatened by athletic girls who are confident about their physical abilities.
Hang in there! Don't betray yourself by trying to be someone you aren't! IT WILL GET BETTER.
2006-09-05 04:03:36 · answer #3 · answered by mistersato 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to be yourself. I was teased in school too. I went on to college and continue to have many friends to this day. People who make fun of you feel threatend by you. I say hold your ground and don't sell out on anyone; including the person it means most to, yourself! remember it is always better to leave your own trails then to follow paths. You'll find your way : ) !!
2006-09-05 04:03:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
teenagers are funny that way, the important thing is that you be true to yourself, make sure no matter what happens you can accept and like who you are and then you'll find that it matters less and less what the others think
2006-09-05 04:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by hoecake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF your having fun, who cares, Just make a sex scandle with one of the boys, that will really confuse them!
2006-09-05 04:00:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋