2006-09-04 20:48:56 · 9 answers · asked by squirell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what a ho
2006-09-04 20:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by westbound65 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you have children, it's no reason to stay in an unhappy relationship honey. Kids pick up on these things. Do you really want to teach them that this is how marriage is so that they grow up to be in the same situation you are? Think about it. Sure it's going to be hard, sure it's going to be an adjustment, but in the long run, it benefits everyone. Do you honestly think your husband is happy? He probably feels the same way.
As for this married man? Oh sweetie, don't be the other woman. You know this man is never going to leave his wife. This relationship is never going to go any further with him as well. What kind of future can you possibly have in that? You have to stop looking for an easy way out of your state of misery. Only you can make yourself feel worthy enough to deserve better than what you have right now.
Whatever has happened to cause this in your life has really given a good blow to your self esteem. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and start moving forward. Don't dig yourself another hole with the married man. You have to end one relationship before you begin another before it can work and that goes for the married guy too.
2006-09-05 03:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not use your children as an excuse - you are doing more damage to them by staying in a relationship that you're not happy in. Tell your husband - be honest, leave him and be on your own for awhile. You should never rely on a married man but know that you're doing the right thing by leaving your husband if you're not in love and work on supporting your children. After all they are the most important people in this mess...
2006-09-05 03:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by jbabee22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't use your children as a cop out. If you really wanted to leave you would not make excuses. Now the reason you can't leave is.....???? Maybe it's because he's not ready to leave his wife for you. Wake up and smell the coffee sister. Two people can be together if they really want to.
2006-09-05 03:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by Honey Dip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This relationship will only bring heartache.. Step away, either make your marriage better or leave it.. Don't mess around. You get no respect from anyone by doing that..The guy in the marriage isn't going to leave his wife either, no matter what.. He's just looking for sex. Respect yourself and walk away now before it gets things get worse.
2006-09-05 03:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by kokomokidder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will not leave your husband because you have 2 children but you will cheat on him and be a bad mother , they look up to you , how can you accept that to them .
Same reason to stay and to be a good mother .
2006-09-05 04:22:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me your children already know you are unhappy. Give them more credit. They are very perceptive. The longer you stay in a unhappy place the more demage it will do to you and your children.
2006-09-05 04:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by gemir69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need held. You need to stop trickin off and act like a wife and mother.
2006-09-05 03:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a double-time home-wrecking whore!!
2006-09-05 04:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋