I've been dating my girlfriend for 2 and 1/2 yrs. I am completely in love w/ her. She cheated on me and broke up w/ me but I don't need an answer to that. She is the first real relationship I've been in where I actually care about the decisions I make with regard to her. I was a virgin before I met her so that my play into my feelings but I'm not sure. Should I see what else is out there, or should I try to find something better? I'm pretty attractive and am not worried that I couldn't find other girls but I'm scared I may not find one like her. I can't tell if I'm making the worst descion of my life because I cry when I remember her smile. Someone please help.
2006-09-04 20:48:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Forget about her. She is history. Move on with your life.
2006-09-04 20:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by not_prfikt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you feel you love her so much and nobody can take her place. But I was in the same situation it hurt me so much because I held myself back to find the perfect guy and never had a boyfriend before that and even though I knew he was cheating i didn't want to lose him. finally it was over I was depressed and just couldn't think of a relationship anymore,I dated and all but nothing worked. After about 6 months a good Friend of me and my ex started calling me more and we went out. To make a long story short he was in front of me all this time but I just didn't notice him that way, things changed and I saw how much better my life was. I also felt this was what love should be like. After 6 years we married a month ago. He's my best Friend and my husband and everything. Believe me you will see how lucky you are that she ended it. in the long run she saved you allot of heartache and you will Finlay see what happiness is really like. move on.
2006-09-05 04:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by azi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are a tricky thing. But I always wanted to find that "One", and instead I've been love 3 times, and have dated 6 different people in my life. I'm not a Player though, so I only date someone when I really like them. Every person is different, so you might not find someome just like her, but that's ok. Also, you don't ever have to stop loving, or caring for someone, even if you're not with them, and even if they hurt you. I still love all of the girls that I've been love with.
2006-09-05 03:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by Corandero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heart ache does hurt. and it will go away, in no specific time. could be a month could be a year, but if you get yourself out there on the market. it will probably take up so much time with seeing other females, let a different one break it if that's`the case. don't give the same one the opportunity to break your heart again. that's what i think would be the best thing to do.
2006-09-05 03:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by hoecake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it must be really hard for you to accept, but if she broke up with you she probably doesn't want to be with you anymore. I understand what you're going through. It will be really really tough to put yourself out there again and you will be discouraged, but you will probably find someone who can make you happy, maybe even happier! If you can't find someone who makes you as happy as she did, talk to her, tell her how you feel about her, etc.
But you never know until you try!
2006-09-05 03:55:40 · answer #5 · answered by julie g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and move on..it always take time to heal. You deserve someone better than her. Later on you will realize that you can be fully happy with anyone else God has prepared for you. Go! :)
2006-09-05 03:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by glymps79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you settle down. Make yourself extremely busy in certain activities. At this point of time your objective should be coming out of crisis. Then you may decide upon your farther course of action.
2006-09-05 03:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by Abhijit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve so much better. If she loved you, she would have never cheated. In time you will find someone so much better. Good Luck!
2006-09-05 03:52:48 · answer #8 · answered by ExoticKiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been through this in my younger days. She is using you and playing with your feelings, Get rid of her and move on. You will find someone like her iff not better.
Good luck.
2006-09-05 03:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve someone who doesn't cheat on you.
Although the feelings won't go away, I think it is time you moved on with your life.
2006-09-05 03:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your case is my case too. like you im confused of what i'll do. will you choose the one you are ready to love for the rest of your life? or the one who will just give you the happiness. we need someone to be with us, like what you said its hard to find someone like her. but if you dont have any chances of getting her back to you. i suggest you find someone else. coz you cant just waste all of your time just for nothing. thats all man. thx...
2006-09-05 03:57:26 · answer #11 · answered by Michael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋