2006-09-04 20:45:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
why don't u also love one at a time ?try it. ( actually i am not able to make out what u r trying to say ?all others love one at a time but u love everybody around u. is it ?
2006-09-12 18:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because often times when you give anyone too much of yourself, and they don't respond in the same way in which you would want them to, the end result is your heart being broken. I fyou are going through this now, I would suggest "screening" the person before you so easily exposed yourself to the hurt that would soon follow if you don't do everything to protect your heart. And believe me, the emotinal scares are almost impossible to heal. So for this reason, you should always have your guard up, and take as much time as needed to feel him out. If the person is truly interested in you, then he would stuck around. That could be a good way to wean out any phonies, who are only in your life to see what they can get out of you. If you present yourself in a way that your body in it's entirity is a temple and you desrve only the best, then the best would come and wstick around if they are in your life for the right reason. This may be a little hard to do at first, but if you use preventive measures now, you can avoid so much trouble in the furtue that it isn't even funny. Take it from me. I am also a person who naturally loves, and when i love I love hard. People who are after anything they can get from you can sense that out of you. I hope you get the message that i am trying to get across. Protect your heart and spirit form all "seasonal" people who are just passing through. You don't want to end up mentally messed up because you have allowed someone to hurt you to the point, where it effects they way that you interact with people and making it difficult to for you to open your heart to the right person to come along, because you have been so hurt in the past that you begin to think everybody is out to gain something. It could get to the point wher you don't know where your normal instincts began and paranoid begans. please take it from somebody who knows.
2006-09-11 09:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is your bad luck/fate.You must try hard to make your fate better.You must love other faitfully if he also love you faitfully.You must make a prudent evaluation whether your boyfriend (bF) is honestly and can be believed faitfully.You must make a yourself evaluation too why your bf did not love you faitfully.You must make an introspection what is your shortcoming and your strength.You see other love without pain but infact it is not always
true.Other's lawn is always look like more green.Your bf is hurting you depends on your heart receiving it or not receiving it as your fate.You must remind in Islamic teaching,you must know that not always which is known as good for you it is good also in the eyes of our God.God can give another love for you as your best..
2006-09-11 03:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you will never really know if others feel pain. there are those who are so used to masking it that often they do not realize they are hurting. a lot of times it is easier to cover up pain, makes that situation more bearable. Often they feel they have no one they can reach out to in those times. That is when being a true friend comes in to play
2006-09-12 08:26:20 · answer #4 · answered by suzanne_sauls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In every relationship (EVERY relationship: parent/child, man/woman, best friends) there is a giver and a taker. You are a giver. Plain and simple. The truth is, people treat you how you allow them to. If you stand up more for yourself, people will take less advantage of you. Don't be afraid they won't like you. If they're worth knowing, they'll like and respect you MORE for it. Just don't be surprised if people who are used to "the old you" are confused or even angry about it. But you know what? It's your life and you are in charge of your own happiness. If you wait for someone else to make you happy and you never will be.
2006-09-05 04:29:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably because you go deep in your love! Love it's like a game! You have to know how to play it, and you have to hide your cards, until the other side open some card for you... When you learn hove to play the game of love, you will be happy and satisfied... Best wishes...
2006-09-12 09:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by Acko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U get hurt by the people Who doesnt deserve ur True Love.
People who do not feel any pain may not have got True Lovers.
2006-09-05 07:23:50 · answer #7 · answered by kummu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love equals vulnerability.
You put yourself out there and then you get a smuck who does not respect or understands this.
This counts for women as well men.
Be sure not to loose your heart to quickly because you are falling in love with being in love.
2006-09-12 07:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by alwyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be such pessimistic , each love-story it;s unique , keep your heart's eyes open and you'll found always after a lost love another one , the world it's a such magnificent place with endless loving unique persons .
2006-09-05 03:53:52 · answer #9 · answered by Paul Alexandru Cazacliu 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love is a chemical reaction. Get out more and keep sniffing, you just haven't found the right dog.
2006-09-12 13:31:24 · answer #10 · answered by Marc O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋