I just found out that my sister slept with my boyfriend...Im hurt so bad and dont know what to do...plz help me someone...It hurts so bad to know that she has done that to me...and she didnt even care that I got upset...so plz...someone help me...I hadn't slept with him because I have had a hard time with sleepin with ppl because I was raped one night when I was drunk and thats the only time I have ever slept with someone...and I dont know if thats the only reason he went to her or what...but it hurts so bad...I just want to die...
2006-09-04 20:14:51 · 15 answers · asked by Katherine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you should get some professional help to get over your justified fear of intimacy, but as for your sister's sleeping with your boyfriend, you need to give him to her. They deserve each other.
2006-09-04 20:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by peanut_curry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although your sister's actions are inappropriate and you are more than justified in feeling hurt and betrayed; as time passes, please make amends with your sister and thank her.
Any man that will voluntarily sleep with his girlfriends sister is not a man worth having around. His intentions were not sincere to you, because if he really loved you he would exercise restraint.
Your sister did you a favor early on in the game by showing you what type of man your boyfriend really is.
Later down the line you will see what a favor she really did for you. If it is easy for this man to cross family lines, then he would have no scruples in crossing lines with girlfriends, co-workers, and possibly even strangers. Setting you up as a high risk for STDs or whatever else he decides to bring to the table. Would you really want to marry and raise a family with a man who has an inability to say "no" when propositioned or can't be trusted.
If you were to stay with this type of individual you would end up embarrassed, looking like a fool; and if you married him... probably divorced and a single parent (if you had children from the union).
Trust me, you won't "die" over this, and in time your pain will fade. Sometimes life has a way of showing you the "red flags" when you refuse to open your eyes and see them for yourself.
Believe in yourself and you will find the right person at the right time... not a minute sooner.
2006-09-05 03:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by ccarter313 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats Hot
2006-09-05 03:23:10 · answer #3 · answered by middleshoes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to die over some piece of sh*t guy. Just cut your losses and move on. There both totally trashy. Find someone who will love you and not go sleep with your sister and would understand what you have been through.
But right now cry it out... If you have to but in the end he's so not worth your tears
2006-09-05 03:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she has already slept with him; you cannot reverse those moments. Speak to both of them together what they want. Will your boyfriend be able to breakup with you just for not having sex with you? If yes, then he is not in love with either of you sisters; just having fun. Leave him if he does so.
Why do you want to die? Just come out of your memories and you will find the world is bigger and there are many more people who does not live only for sex.
2006-09-05 03:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by Ss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b4 you start drinking and getting drunk, you should know the people around you well and trust them. if i was your bf, i would have broken up with you even though you were raped while drunk but you were being careless. so much typical teenagers get drunk and think it's cool but dont' know what could happen. i don't know what to tell you but what ur bf did was just dumb in a way. if he really cared for you, he wouldn't have done what he did even though he was really hurt. it just makes the relationship even worse. i don't even know what to advise you but be strong and start fresh. there's more fish in the sea and for future reference, be more careful before you start getting drunk. just hope you learn something from what you and your bf did to each other! be responsible! you don't want to have a bad reputation! God Bless!
2006-09-05 03:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by an oriental guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are fine. The boy that slept with your sister is just that a boy. Not a man. Thinking with the brains between his legs not that one between his ears. He's not worth your tears. Find someone else move on " turn the page. " You will find someone in time. Let you wounds heal first.
good luck
2006-09-05 03:23:21 · answer #7 · answered by RCP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This means war, i know that she is your sister but even after you beat and kill her she will still be your sister, she will just be your dead sister, that's all. That is a really underhanded and slimy thing for her to do to you, i myself have a sister and no other brothers so i don't know what it would be like to be in that situation myself. I would ask her why she did this to you, and ask her if she knew that this would hurt you so bad.
2006-09-05 04:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by sincity usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it is a pretty common occurance. Your sister wants revenge on you. She percieves that you did her wrong, or she is just a really bad person. You will get over it. If you believe this is a good time to be praying.
2006-09-05 03:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by icheeknows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUCH ! ! !
that so sucks. take her on jerry springer and kick her butt. get rid of the pain by inflicting some of your own.
2006-09-05 03:16:40 · answer #10 · answered by feisty_wun 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋