Mine is a happy marriage of 4 years. No kids. EVERYTHING was all right, but a week ago smth came over him. He still talks to me, but never kisses or hugs as it used to be. He says he's tired and it's the crisis of our relationship. Well, I don't see any crisis. I'm all right. But what's wrong with him?
2006-09-04 19:55:25 · 18 answers · asked by Tanya K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Whatever you do, don't force the issue. Give him some time to figure it out for himself. If he leaves then there really isn't anything you can do about it. Just be yourself and let the chips fall where they may. Forcing the issue will only make you seem more like an unpleasant female dog if you know what I mean. I hope the best for you. Thanks for your question.
2006-09-04 20:02:18 · answer #1 · answered by Dude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you are experiencing this .. maybe it would be good to go see a marriage counselor and it appears there is a huge problem with communication. He is saying there is a crisis but you are left with not knowing what it is (I couldn't imagine how frustrating that would be). I hope it all works out.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-04 19:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Tanya, Sounds like he wants out of his marriage.He may have found someone else behind your back.I don't know what your age is ,and really can't say that he as found a younger parnter.But what you are saying,is the way i started feeling about my x,and i finally had enought of his abuse both physial and mental.I just fell out of love with him and started hating him.He was a controlling BASTARD. I know it's not the same in your case,but sweety he has all the signs of wanted to leave your marriage.Be strong and stand your grounds, if this happens.All the luck in the world.
Clowmy
2006-09-04 20:08:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may have happened due to the same old routine in these 4 yrs. Try something new; like make/order some spl. food of his choice twice in a week. Make some changes in your house like change in the settings of living room, bed room. Try new cloths/curtains/upholstry. If you arrive home earlier than him / house wife get some make up on before he comes or try not to wear crumpled clothes; look fresh & cheerful.
Lastly, if he feels tired offer him some massage with scented oils.
I hope these thing should do.
2006-09-04 20:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by Ss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was looking at a couple today while having lunch and i notice that the woman is talkin a lot about their son but the husband just listen. I guess as wives, we kind of have different priorites in life. Husbands and wives face each other every day and i guess they get sick of each other. Maybe you can do something different to give him a surprise.
2006-09-04 20:28:08 · answer #5 · answered by autumn lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should consult marriage counsellor, they should be the best person to answer your question. Many factors can cause changing in sex such as you yourself the way you treating him, his stress from work, his health problem, etc.
Perhaps you try something different than normal daily activity, like putting on a see-thru nightgown, wearing a sexy panty and give him extra service to please him. These might do the trick.
2006-09-04 20:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by Rod 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something has happened, only he can tell you. It's possible he strayed and now feels guilty, but don't dwell on that. Maybe getting him and yourself to counseling will bring it out. Then you will have a professional there to getting what ever it is straightened out.
I had 2 wives tire of me, obviously it didn't work out.
2006-09-04 20:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by whatshisface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do wives get tired of their husbands?
The difference is that they DO have kids, and trick their husbands into taking care of another guy's kids.
2006-09-04 19:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have a bigger problem than you think. Ask him point blank if he is infatuated with someone else or going through a problem he doesn't want to talk about. Follow it up from there.
2006-09-04 19:59:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
on my opinion maybe he wants a kid.y dont u talk it over with him?ask him why is he acting that way lately?try to understand him when he says he's tired,but when it's always like that,there's a problem.if he cant open it up,try to ask him.there's something bothering him.try to observe him.this is all i can say.godbless you.pray for him that he'll be his usual self again.
2006-09-04 20:22:11 · answer #10 · answered by mrs.worry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋