How ? We can believe others....please suggest simple and factual ways.......?

Question

Is there any instrument/part in our body or mind to find out above asked question ? Please share with your experiences......

Answer 1

i was very young when i used to feel very uncomfortable even while surrounded by my family..reasons were i was dark in color as others were quite fair, i was very quite, i was not good in studies etc. to avoid that i started staying aloof, away from everybody..some people of my family took it in wrong way and they started calling me "manhus". but i started observing people very closely..from a very young age i used to study their body language, eyes, how they move, how they speak and things like that..i then started guessing who is what..n i used to guess right mostly..

talk to people looking into their eyes..ve eye contact then u ll come to know almost 50% of that person..observe them properly..dont miss anything..u ll know if that person is to be trusted or not

Answer 2

Signs of Deception:
Body Language of Lies:
• Physical expression will be limited and stiff, with few arm and hand movements. Hand, arm and leg movement are toward their own body the liar takes up less space.

• A person who is lying to you will avoid making eye contact.

• Hands touching their face, throat & mouth. Touching or scratching the nose or behind their ear. Not likely to touch his chest/heart with an open hand.

Emotional Gestures & Contradiction
• Timing and duration of emotional gestures and emotions are off a normal pace. The display of emotion is delayed, stays longer it would naturally, then stops suddenly.

• Timing is off between emotions gestures/expressions and words. Example: Someone says "I love it!" when receiving a gift, and then smile after making that statement, rather then at the same time the statement is made.

• Gestures/expressions don’t match the verbal statement, such as frowning when saying “I love you.”

• Expressions are limited to mouth movements when someone is faking emotions (like happy, surprised, sad, awe, )instead of the whole face. For example; when someone smiles naturally their whole face is involved: jaw/cheek movement, eyes and forehead push down, etc.

Interactions and Reactions
• A guilty person gets defensive. An innocent person will often go on the offensive.

• A liar is uncomfortable facing his questioner/accuser and may turn his head or body away.

• A liar might unconsciously place objects (book, coffee cup, etc.) between themselves and you.

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Body Language
Verbal Context and Content
• A liar will use your words to make answer a question. When asked, “Did you eat the last cookie?” The liar answers, “No, I did not eat the last cookie.”

•A statement with a contraction is more likely to be truthful: “ I didn't do it” instead of “I did not do it”

• Liars sometimes avoid "lying" by not making direct statements. They imply answers instead of denying something directly.

• The guilty person may speak more than natural, adding unnecessary details to convince you... they are not comfortable with silence or pauses in the conversation.

• A liar may leave out pronouns and speak in a monotonous tone. When a truthful statement is made the pronoun is emphasized as much or more than the rest of the words in a statement.

• Words may be garbled and spoken softly, and syntax and grammar may be off. In other
words, his sentences will likely be muddled rather than emphasized.

Other signs of a lie:
• If you believe someone is lying, then change subject of a conversation quickly, a liar follows along willingly and becomes more relaxed. The guilty wants the subject changed; an innocent person may be confused by the sudden change in topics and will want to back to the previous subject.

• Using humor or sarcasm to avoid a subject.

Answer 3

Believing others depends upon the circumstances in which you have to interact with them. When you believe one particular person in a particular situation, you get satisfied and tend to believe him/her. Suppose you believe the same person under different situation, you may get duped or dissatisfied. There is no specific instrument or part in our body to gauge the degree of believability as such. First of all, let use believe ourselves. You believe others depending on from person to person and from situation to situation. Believe all but trust not all! Belief brings us certain satisfaction but we may incur loss when we trust all.

Answer 4

believing or not believing is a state of the mind. what is unbelievable to you could be very much believable to me. there are no instruments to measure the amount of truth one is writing or saying. it depends entirely on your the receiver's perception of facts or fictions.

Answer 5

there r many ways like one becomes nervous,blinks his eyes,will try to escape fast from the person to whom he lies.the instrument is lie detectometer used by police to detect in investigat`n.

Answer 6

As per my opinion you are need to understand others confidence
and their style or type of do work. You are need to know their
personality.

Answer 7

VERY SIMPLE IF UR HEART FULLFILLED BY LOVE,CARENESS,OBEY THAN U EASLY TRUST ON OTHERS. IN THIS WORLD MANY PEOPLE WHO DOES CARE WAT HE DO WITH OTER PEOPLE, BUT IF U CARE ABT THIS U EASLY TRUST ON THEM
THIS IS A WORLD WHERE U ALWAYS WIN BY LOVE,AND U NEVER LOST ANY THING