i been trying to concieve for 12 yrs and just so stressed out,,,,,,i always think about it wanting a baby,,,,,,,,its on my mind all the time and when i see the house so lonely its even worst i feel like i need a child to raise ,,,,i am thniking about adopting but that even hard to do they don't have babys aviaible they are older i want a child less than a year because they will be raised with your ways and knowing only you,,,but its hard i am thinking of going to mexico over thay have alot of babys and i can adopt but how do i get the papers work started and is it hard expensive??????? if i do it myself and someone over there in my family could help me getting information i guess? i really didn't know where to post my question??/
2006-09-04 19:06:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
what gets me is that the doctor says i am okay i just don't ovulate i 'm like okay so help me?? they just put me on metifornin its been a year now and told me to lose weight,, thats it ...i am going to have insurance soon need to go to a specialist wish me luck that i will pray for all fo you and me,,thanks for answering my question and taking the time to do so ...............postive vibes to all of you*********************************
2006-09-05 08:01:34 · update #1
and i do try to forget about it and not be so stressed out but when i look around me and everyone has thier family its hard buti will try to take some of your suggestions thanks....
2006-09-05 08:04:13 · update #2
Honey you need to relax. Everyone kept telling me to relax and don't try so hard and you will get pregnant. Well i didn't believe any of them. Went through some fertility drugs was having sex almost everyday was always thinking about a baby. I finally relaxed and me and my hubby decided to quit trying it just probably wasn't going to happen. about 6 months went by didnt even look when i was ovulating just was a normal month think we only had sex once and guess what i was pregnant you have to RELAX and forget about it your putting your body through so much trying and the metal part. your body reacts to that negatively. Just relax and it will happen. Adopting is always great too i just wish they didn't make it cost so much i think more kids would have better homes. Best of luck to you and here is some baby dust...
2006-09-04 19:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by shaylee b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely suggest that you adopt a child. There are actually a lot of babies in the world that need a home. You should look at the many third world countries out there. Those countries have a lot of babies that need people to love and care for them. I don't know about the expenses. But I don't think that it's expensive. Talk to adoption agencies in your city about this. I'm sure they will be able to help you. Good Luck!
2006-09-05 02:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by -- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the only way for you to relax is by taking a long vacation and going somewhere nice. Take your partner with you and go to a place where you do not know anybody, that way you'll both focus on each other only, away from any responsibilities. I am not sure whether it will help you conceive but I know it is a guaranteed way of relaxing and you should definitely try that before considering adoption.
I wish you the best of luck.
2006-09-05 02:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by rinah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many needy kids out there that just want someone to love them, and sadly its the older ones who need love the most because they've often been in the system the longest.
Babies get adopted easily. Its the older kids who really need someone to help them pick of the pieces of their shattered lives. They're hurting the most, and need the most love. Babies don't even fully understand whats going on.
2006-09-05 02:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by blandnamenotworthremembering 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi,I'm sorry that you have been waiting so long to conceive. i wanted to tell you to try being a foster parent a friend of mine was a foster mom for a while and she ended up adopting two of the babies and i think it is free that way also the dcf pays you to be a foster mom and you get medical for the children too.and before anyone gets into an uproar it is not about the money you get but it is expensive to adopt a baby these days!! i sincerely hope this helped!
2006-09-05 02:34:12 · answer #5 · answered by I LOVE ANGELINA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RELAX!!!
When you are too stressed out your body won't want to have a kid. Take some relaxaional exercises, and then let nature take it's course. It always happens when you don't try as hard and theres no pressure.
2006-09-05 02:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by ripperdear6766 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i ask you just relax dint worry at all.i dont know you have especial problem or not,and possibly you have seen a doctor for sure.meanwhile there are a lot of babies who need a mother like you.
2006-09-05 02:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
adopt
2006-09-05 09:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by baddrose268 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋