my husband filled divorce...and now we remain friends while waiting for the result...i ask him how life doing and his girl in the net,he denied everything...just now i called him and say that i talk to the girl(w/c is lie)and i found out that they still talking...i remain friend to him becoz i will give him 2nd time...buy i was wrong je never loves me no more...it hurts me so bad....
how can i forget this everything.....i still love him
2006-09-04 18:35:58 · 11 answers · asked by capricorn girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hon, lost love can really hurt deeply.
It has happened to me and almost every other human on the planet. It sucks but it happens. We love and we give all of ourselves and they we get betrayed.
Feel the pain. Cry and let it all out. Then you get up and you put him behind you and know that you deserve better. You might always love him but that doesn't mean that you need to be with him.
Get on with your life. Set some goals. Make new friends.
You know the best revenge on him is for you to be happy and do well without him! You can do it, I know you can.
2006-09-04 18:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your husband has filed a divorce and has another chic there isn't really anything you can do, but if you still love him then you can make his life with any other chic a living hell to the point where he won't try to get another girl and hopefully in time he eventually take you back because he'll think he was wrong all the time about the divorce and want you back.
2006-09-05 02:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There will be minor Misunderstandings between the couples,, but the hidden love and inner side of your heart is still Loving him,,and u have trusted him totally,, and at the same time he might loves you,, but then he got a new friend,, so he may be expecting some more love through her,, but let him realise the real love between u both,, instead of arguing,, try to move still closer,, and try to share all your past memories ,, where u both might have spent some nice moments etc,, the moment u both share the nice moments between u,, the closeness will again takes place,, so u both may cancel for the divorce and stay to-gether,, i do pray for you
2006-09-05 01:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by joy_joy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl, we win some and lose some the best thing to do is find happiness within yourself. I've been divorced now for a year and no it is not easy but you must move on to better things. Date a little,just learn to enjoy life day by day and believe me it has helped me and it will help you. Most importantly pray to GOD to help you deal with this situation things will work out. I always say GOD saves the best for last.
2006-09-05 02:16:41 · answer #4 · answered by atl 26 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course part of you still loves him.That little part always will,but it will get smaller with time....A marriage is like a life,once it is over with you need time to mourn it. You need to accept it,go through a greiving process, and go on with your life. It will help you to have no contact with him till you get over this.Everything you are feeling is natural.Don't think for one minute you are going nuts.
2006-09-05 02:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by garmarie38 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyway , you both have made up your mind , so no point to behave like a old friend , better start concentrating in other activities and start looking for another man .GOOD LUCK
2006-09-05 02:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drink some root beer, play "Margaritaville", and then have a good cry about it. I tried it, and it worked, especially when my girlfriend cheated on me and left me.
2006-09-05 01:40:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2006-09-06 01:40:29 · answer #8 · answered by young nipplez 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it happen,it happened to me,it could happen to anyone or to anybody.it just the way it is
2006-09-05 01:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by verdance 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Where you from? Do you have kids? How old is he? You? email me...
2006-09-05 01:40:40 · answer #10 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋