Once a while I start thinking and I am positive she did him more than once she told me friend but she didnt tell me
she told me she did it with her other boyfriend but not that she did it more than once
what does this mean about her
cause I get irritated once a while cause of that
and I cant do nothing about it cause it passed already
2006-09-04 18:28:29 · 21 answers · asked by Francisca M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you cant be mad, nobody is a virgin anymore
2006-09-04 18:29:39 · answer #1 · answered by Southie9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when I met my husband he was a virgin still but I already had sex and it wasn't anything I was proud of it's always good to tell the one your with the truth I don't believe in hiding anything from the one your with she really should had told you I would just talk to her about it I told my man off the bat about it and it's normal for men to feel upset it kinda upset my man cause he wished he could had been my 1st but girls do make mistakes as well as men do just like I made a mistake the guy I was with that I lost my virginity to I was engaged to him and got pregnant then when I ended up in the hospital ready to miscarry he called me at the hospital and broke everything off with me girls can get misled too sometimes I know I did so just talk to her about it maybe she got misled to just talk to her about it tell her to be opened with you and you will be with her but don't give a hard time maybe she didn't want you to think she was a slut or maybe she didn't want to hurt you she could had wanted your friend to tell you instead of her cause it could had been a mistake for her just talk to her
2006-09-04 18:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The virginity thing is highly overrated. Don't think twice about it. It's not important. We all have relationships: good ones and bad ones. If virginity is important to you, then you're likely to be the one with the wrong attitude. If you're on some Christian virginity kick, that's great, but you are supposed to practice forgiveness, aren't you.
2006-09-04 18:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your girlfriend were not seeing each other at the time I am not sure why it would bother you. if she had no ties to you at the time she also had no loyalty to you at the time. realize that I am speaking from personal experience now if you and her are younger that might be an issue but it seems like unfounded jealousy
2006-09-04 18:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she "did it " with someone else before you got with her i dont why you should worry about it........ it has nothing to do with you unless she did it while she was with you, that would be different story right......... just let it go carry on with your life with her the way it is and if you keep worrying about it it wont last for long cause it will eventually it will cause a problem in the long run.
2006-09-04 18:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by angel_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends where you live and if there is a habit there for the girls to do it young! I mean,if everyone is ok with no-more-virgins you shouldn't bother but if they don't like such girls (as in my country) you should find yourself a better girl :p
2006-09-04 18:41:29 · answer #6 · answered by Elli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If virginity is an issue for you, then you need to find a girl who is a virgin. I had the same problem. They're still out there.
2006-09-04 18:30:41 · answer #7 · answered by DeadxStar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well like u said it the past n it over! So move on...if u reali love this gal dun b bother w her past....it over! It her present n future tat matter to u....so if her past is bothering u i suggest u leave her n leave her alone...
2006-09-04 18:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by D@ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
should it bother you? yes...but can you do anything about it? no
I had to live with it and it was very hard at first...especially when you see the guy somewhere while you are with her...luckily i dont have that problem anymore because im not with her now but it will always be hard...sorry pal...good luck
2006-09-04 18:31:56 · answer #9 · answered by L-Train 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer also kinda depends on how old you are. if she's 13, two is pushing it, but if she's 22, some guys might think that was freakishly small amount of lovers.....
2006-09-04 18:31:44 · answer #10 · answered by Hot Lips 4077 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
helo. if it bothered you this much, what are u doing with her silly? move on. nobody is an angel. so is she. and if it bothers you this much, dont settle. go get a virgin. and i am not kidding. think about it.
2006-09-04 18:33:47 · answer #11 · answered by Niki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋