I try to be relax when I meet someone but I am extremelly shy ...I guess that is why I am lonely
2006-09-04 18:21:24 · 8 answers · asked by Yami 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thanks very much hotro4u ...you make my day!!!
2006-09-05 06:26:11 · update #1
You are really very beautiful (if it's truly your photo here) and extremely attractive, and you are also very intelligent. In short, you are a very desirable young lady. I would certainly like to spend my life with you if only I could. Shyness is no barrier, for me it will make me feel even more attracted to you. I love you very much, you are appreciated and wanted.
2006-09-04 23:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by Rude 4 U 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I imagine you're referring to someone of the opposite sex. It's hard to relax when you're meeting someone, a potential friend or lover, for the first time. Especially if you're attracted to them, you put pressure on yourself to be your best, and then suddenly you can't function at all! That feeds on itself, until your completely useless. You do have the right idea, you said so yourself. Just relax. Try what I did. I decided a long time ago that whenever I meet someone I find myself attracted to, I just let go and try to be myself, not even thinking about impressing that person. They will either like me or not, and there's really not a lot I can do about it. I always figure, well, if they don't, it's their loss. Good luck!
2006-09-05 01:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fake it until you make it.
Look at others around you and how they talk without being shy. Get some ideas of how they do it.
One good thing is the ask questions and sound interested in someone, then they are doing all the talking not you, try to be genuine about being interested
Then fake it until you are less shy.
2006-09-05 01:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not thinking of yourself so much. Try actually LISTENING when people talk to you; it will help you take your mind off yourself and you will come across as a more interesting person. If you mean you just blush a lot - that is actually very atractive.
2006-09-05 01:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by mica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go take dance lessons, there are so many types of dances out there, there must be one that you like. I don't know why you are shy, but if you want to get out of your shell, learning how to dance is a great way to get out there and express yourself.
2006-09-05 01:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by ibelieveicanfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant help much but i can say i sympathize with you im the same way it is hard to meet new people when you r shy
2006-09-05 01:29:22 · answer #6 · answered by m g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be EXHIBITIONIST and your shyness will vanish for ever.
2006-09-05 01:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by a j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is natural for girls
2006-09-05 01:29:10 · answer #8 · answered by SK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋