I'm an asian and my attraction is not at all for an asian girls (no offence pls.). If I make the move toward a right kind of a white girl , am I doing something wrong or unacceptable to the norms of the society?I know the US society is not beheading but I wonder if it is looked down upon?
2006-09-04 18:05:22 · 17 answers · asked by BulldogChild 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
absolutely not, Im white and I knew this asian guy kinda liked me but he would never made a move. I was an idiot not to advance to him, but some of us white girls are old fashion and want the man to make the first move. I think asian men and white girls make a great couple. I married a white guy but wondered how this guy would have been. Its a plus if your smart and economical, meaning you drive a honda versus spending your money on a BMW, then not even having enough money to pay for the date. good luck and go for it.
2006-09-04 18:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by circusdejojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing nothing wrong if you find a white girl that you like, and you make moves toward her. To give you an example, I am an Italian, and I am romantically involved with a Mexican girl, and there are really no problems. you will find (particularly if you live in the US) that most people just do not care about your race/ethnicity, and the ones who do are the ignorant ones who have not evolved toward the modern society. Go for the girl that you want, and do not worry about what other people think: after all , they are only thoughts or words, and in the end, you will be happiest with the girl (white, black, hispanic, asian, whatever (even though you specified white in this case)) of your choice, and that is all that truly matters.
2006-09-05 01:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As an Asian-American woman, I am not at all offended. I highly doubt other Asian-Americans will have ill-feelings towards you and your preference for White girls. If anything, they will probably be more accepting of you than,let's say, an Asian-American woman with a White boy. You dig? Besides, if anyone says anything, you can always retort by stating that Asian-American women have been doing it for years.
2006-09-05 01:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by chicago_finest_773 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a white girl and i went out with an asian guy, it was great, but his mum didn't really aprove! Check to see if your family will support you first!!
2006-09-05 01:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat them with respect and dignity. You will get along fine. Just treat them using manners. Interracial relationships are OK in most places. But there are a few backward places where they are not. Only a few. In most college towns and all cities it is considered normal.
2006-09-05 01:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by jesus_lover1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not looked down upon, but we do believe in this country in not mixing the races because of the problems it presents to the chilldren should you have some. As long as you plan to spend the rest of your life in this country it is not looked down on.
2006-09-05 01:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't see why it would be looked down upon. In the end it is only going to matter to you, no one else! Follow your heart.
2006-09-05 01:07:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I love asian girls is that a problen bulldog
2006-09-05 01:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by Israel G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what you do in life there will always be critical people. So forget who would look down on you and follow your heart.
2006-09-05 01:15:56 · answer #9 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It shouldnt be. All of the unecessary negative attention is focused on interracial relationships that exist between black and white people. Hell, if you date outside your race, no one will probably notice!
2006-09-05 01:11:04 · answer #10 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋