my wife has subscribed to a porn site specifically aimed at women (naked men etc) I feel threatened by this am I overreacting?
2006-09-04 17:20:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're not overreacting and you do have a right to be jealous. Neither one of you should be viewing porn. If this keeps up you can kiss your relationship good buy. I know this won't be a popular answer but it is the truth, and that's what we are looking for, right?
2006-09-04 18:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm laughing at your question. I don't mean to, but more often than not, there are women on here asking the same question about men, and half the time everyone says the girl should be offended. Now when the shoe is on the other foot, they are saying it's okay? Hmmm, makes me wonder. Anyway, you should probably find out why your wife feels the need to look at such websites before you do anything else. I also don't think you should feel "threatened" by this. What is the harm? It's like a man looking at porn or a beautiful woman online or in a magazine. I wouldn't be worried until she makes it a habit.
2006-09-05 00:46:48 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question would be is do you watch any type of porn? If you do, then you should understand as to why your wife might be intersted also. You really need to ask yourself as to why you might feel threatened as you are the only person that would really know if you should be or not. If this is something new that your wife has never done before, why don't you just come out and ask her why the interest suddenly. That really is the only way you will know if you should feel threatened or not.
2006-09-05 00:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have been perving at porn openly since the dawn of time!! now when a women does the double standards start
2006-09-05 05:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by poptrash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can install a porn filter software like NetDog on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com
2006-09-05 02:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man, that stuf can turn into a habit and hurt you in the long run. Think about it, would you want a hot dog if you been staring at a sausage all the time?
you have your answer.
2006-09-05 00:23:28 · answer #6 · answered by studiotw88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not overreacting, your wife is definitely being pretty rude. What she's doing is wrong.
2006-09-05 00:22:42 · answer #7 · answered by Katy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are.. you shouldnt be
i mean i guess if she dont like you looking at porn then no but if you think your allowed to do it and she cant its just.. wrong.
2006-09-05 00:23:03 · answer #8 · answered by broken_juggalette_11705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no need to feel jealous its you thats in her bedroom every night, just see it as a type of entertainment
2006-09-05 00:22:08 · answer #9 · answered by imHereAskMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should be jealous. Pictures can't replace a person.
2006-09-05 00:22:57 · answer #10 · answered by ncladams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋