++I love seeing guys kissing
++I'm attracted to both girls and guys--more so men though
++I'm 15 and I dated a 22 yr old before (expierimental or weird?)
++I date allot of guys with eating diorders (not on purpose either)
++I cut and I have no reason to
++I starve myself for days sometimes
++I usually dump ppl after getting close.
++I look for comfort in the wrong things sometimes
I want to know who I am and why I do the messed up tings I do
Is anyone else like this or know what I mean?
2006-09-04 17:18:36 · 17 answers · asked by love_only_lasts_in_death 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Please get some help. It sounds like you have many problems that we can not help you with. good luck
2006-09-04 17:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well nothings wrong with you
Thats just your opinion on things
You might like to see dogs have sex and other people might not
and age doesn't matter in a relationship
and you might be bi
and all thoose guys...... weird quinicadince
now you SHOULDN'T CUT! bad bad bad
You shouldn't starve your self either tisk tisk tisk
You are afraid that you will get too close and they might break your heart and break up with you
idk for the last one
but you should probably go and see help
Good Luck!
2006-09-05 00:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by gingerg50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're a confused teenager. There's millions out there having the same problems. My girlfriend, when she was your age, she had basically the same issues as you, besides the 22 yr old. She's bi, she's wiccan, when she met me, I had an eating disorder, she cut, she went to the mental ward, she's bipolar. You need to find yourself, and try seeking therapy. Talk to someone who knows how to deal with the situations you're failing to control yourself. You get some good antidepressants to hopefully put you in a feel-good mood, which will eventually help you find yourself. Good luck.
2006-09-05 00:23:28 · answer #3 · answered by scarsoflife8282 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are others like you; you need help. I hope that you have shared this with your parents or a caring adult.
First, you may be bisexual; no problem
Second, you're too young to date guys over 16, if at all!
Third; you date people with problems so that you can feel more normal. '" Birds of a feather flock together!"
fourth, I don't know why you cut, but for this you need professional help.
fith same thing
sixth same thing
seven same thing.
Please get some professional help; you do not need to suffer like this!
2006-09-05 00:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby gurl you are young and you have many many years of life ahead of you.. You probably would say to me that you are more mature for your age. Your sexual feelings towards both sexes is normal.. It's your hormones and whatever orientation you find yourself to be, when you do, that is your choice and your own lifestyle. You might experiment and think differently - but we learn from our experiences. I also dated older men when I was your age as more and more young girls seem to nowadays but I am NOT encouraging it at all.. I'd advise you to be careful, as in being protected and conscious of your actions. Also the 22 year old could find himself in jail if your parents find out and take action.. I wouldn't recommend it, honestly. As for the cutting and starvation, you should seek help now while you're young. I'll tell you this.. and think about it too. You need to learn to love yourself to find happiness.. and for someone to love you back. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. God bless...
2006-09-05 00:27:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I must ask you were either abused very early in life and only have ill effects but no direct memory abuse before 6-7 yrs old your school councilor could help take the time now before it feel worse , My daughter was abused before she came to live with me she was 5 when it happened and now does the same things it happened over time but got worse she is in tharipy now it takes time to heal and to understand
2006-09-05 00:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by freeby1011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dealt with many cutters over this thing.... I may NOT understand the whys of it all, but I have learned this to be a certain thing...... there is something deep within you that makes you do the things you are doing..... something from the past that has caused YOU pain and emotional up heaval...... you need to seek help NOW.... cutting is a physical way of over powering an emotional one....... so PLEASE go to an adult you trust and let them get you help......God bless
2006-09-05 00:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with you, you're 15, it's a great time to experience lots of strong feelings... Extreme sensations, likes and dislikes, happiness and sadness. Be proud of what you are and the feelings that you are having - they are what makes you unique, and give you a unique personality.
2006-09-05 00:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by Cormac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a professional.
2006-09-05 00:20:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you could be bi-sexual or just sexually confused. You should go talk to a counselor and get to the bottom of your issues, or even talk to your parents, but a counselor won't be judgemental........
2006-09-05 00:21:37 · answer #10 · answered by cslynn1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to seek professional help. You've been severely traumatized somehow.
2006-09-05 00:23:17 · answer #11 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋