So I'm 15, yes I know young, but still. I've liked this girl for about a year now, we even went out once but it lasted for about 4 days =/. Shes the kind of girl who can never make up her mind about who she likes, and can't stay hooked on a guy for more then a week at a time. I know that this is only, "puppy love", or whatever you may call it, but I just can't get her off my mind. Any suggestions? I've tried music and just not talking to her, which worked up until i talked to her again, lol. Again I know I'm young, but I just want to get her outta my head =/.
2006-09-04 17:10:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You can't "make" yourself not think about her, that would be impossible and self-defeating. Instead, try meeting new friends and try a new activity. Staying busy is the only way to keep your mind off things you don't want to constantly obsess about.
2006-09-04 17:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by blondambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try new activities and make yourself busy. If you start thinking of her, say something else out loud because you focus on that and might forget what you were thinking about. Try not to see her much. If she's in your class, sit somewhere far from her near the front. Then focus on whatever your teacher is teaching you. Also, meet new people. Eventually you won't think of her the same way.
2006-09-05 00:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by Kenneth S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it might sound oldish, but keep your mind busy with something else. Think of something you would really like to learn and start taking classes or buy a couple of books to help you learn. Make it something really interesting, to help you stay focused.
And do understand she is still very young and not interested in a long term relationship.
2006-09-05 03:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by Mira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude...Im 25.......I have experienced the same before.........I fell in serious love with a girl for 2 years........and then she let me go .......coz she was the type of girl u mentioned. Couldn't stick to one guy.....I had loved her deeply .....I was depressed mentally........and I had no one to talk to.......but still I came out of the mess..........Because I found ways to keep myself busy........I started working.....When Im free I go meet some friends, listen to music, watch TV, etc....... But I stll did not forget her.....I call her up ocassionally.....
just to make her feel something for me...........but I don't love her anymore..............and Im happy without her. Now Im absolutely normal. I suggest u to find ways to keep yourself busy......Dont trust every girl you meet.....................
2006-09-05 03:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by shaft_the_only_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once upon a time i had the same problem,dude,she doesn't won't a serious relationship,my advice is to be friends with benefits.Don't get attatched to her,just be friends who kiss and sex.
2006-09-05 00:15:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ramon O 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing helps. Dont even try, Once they stick their claws in you, It will always leave a mark. I tell my sons that are your age, to stay away from girls, that they are the devil, and will drag you thru emotions that men aren't capable of understanding
2006-09-05 00:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by myothernewname 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just find another girl. That always worked for me.
2006-09-05 00:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by jeff b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just concentrate on your ****** career just think that if you dont get her out of your mind now you will be out of mind later in life
2006-09-05 03:50:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its impossible.im thinking the same thing about a guy right now. but i nvr wnt out with him. im hoping to , though.
2006-09-06 16:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by METAL CHICK_est.1977 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, try looking for another girl. there are a lot out there.
tash
2006-09-05 00:14:28 · answer #10 · answered by tash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋