My husband is across the country staying with my parents to look for work. I was looking at my husbands email & saw he had downloaded pics off my moms laptop of her naked. They were pics she took for her hubby. I freaked out and am now disgusted by my husbands actions. This goes further than your typical guy looking at porn. I can't tell my mom because they will kick him out and he is job hunting and house hunting there. What would you have said/done? How would you feel? Any advice will be helpful. Thanks.
2006-09-04 16:46:35 · 24 answers · asked by chrissy112 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I want to know how he found the pics....knew that they even existed in the first place....there is something very wrong with this story. Why were you looking at his email??? Were you trying to find something??? What are you NOT telling us?
2006-09-04 17:16:40 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is completely unacceptable behavior. If he is doing this, you need to ask yourself what else has he doing half way across the country. You did not say whether or not you have kids, or how long you have been married. But, if it were me I would be looking for a divorce lawyer. This guy can not be trusted. If he is doing something this sick then I guarantee you he is doing other stuff you are unaware of. He can not be trusted. Get out while you can. Also you mom does need to know. May think about how you tell her. You dad is likely to blow a gasket and get into some legal problems over it. Hope things work out best for you.
2006-09-04 16:57:50 · answer #2 · answered by Mark67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Mom Naked Pics
2017-01-16 13:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should kick him out of the house instead of your mother. That is just plain sick. Your mom should of been smarter and took those pics out of the computer knowing that someone is going to stay there and possibly see them. It would be one thing if he called you and told you that he has seen a pic of your Mom naked but you know he downloaded them for his sexual gratification.
2006-09-04 16:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do the following:
1. Let my husband know I know what he did
2. I would tell my mother
Sorry, that is just all the way around wrong, looking for a job or not - and you want to be with him?
2006-09-04 16:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom put the pic's out there. Maybe you should have a chat with your mom.Would you be upset if the pic's were of someone else other then your mom?
2006-09-05 01:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, in this case, I would let my mother know. This is complete and utter DISRESPECT for BOTH u and your mother and if this is the kind of sick person he is, he needs help. And because he is there staying with them, u need to let your mother in on this as soon as possible. When he comes back home, u deal with him separately.
2006-09-04 17:03:59 · answer #7 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him about it. He may just be setting them up for a mean joke...I hope. anyway, get ready to have a big fight with him though. If your mom looks a lot like you and is lovely, then you have nothing to worry about. otherwise he is a freak!
2006-09-04 16:49:10 · answer #8 · answered by Akela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put him on the Jerry Springer show
2006-09-05 07:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax sweetie. I need to evaluate the pictures before I can make an accurate assessment. I think you might be over-re-acting. ------------
2006-09-04 16:51:51 · answer #10 · answered by angleheart20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋