GUYS WHAT WOULD YOU DO, GIRLS WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE DONE? say you are having sex and your husband orgasims before you. what do you do? roll over and go to sleep or would you do something about it? and if so what would it be? this never happened to me before, and i'm lost on what to do.
2006-09-04 16:45:59 · 36 answers · asked by Zoey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if the dude is a quick one squirter, he should finger and give oral for a while before wiping it out.
2006-09-04 16:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by mr.bill 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I learned when I was a young man" If she's not done your not done" I will tell you what we do and you can pick and choose as you like.It is important to me that she gets off so, I start her with a little oral when I'm sure she is warmed up ,then we go at it.If for some reason I go first(and it does happen to the best of us)I would never just stop,I keep going, If she is being particularly difficult ,we switch top to bottom ,by this time she is usually pretty close and just a few minutes with her on top does it. Damn I'm gettin hot just writing this "HONEY WHERE ARE YOU" Hey I gotta go hope this helps.
2006-09-04 18:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as a start, this will happen many more times so be prepared for the action.
What should you do? Talk it over with him in a loving manner and try to get medical attention for him.
Buy herbalife products for him so that he can regain some of what he lost.
Find out if he has some of the famous diseases that affects men in his age group.
2006-09-04 16:55:34 · answer #3 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
With my ex gf I usually finished first and she was very persistent in not letting me go to sleep until she got off as well. Whether it be another round of sex or having me us my fingers and tongue on her. She made sure I finished the job before I went to sleep.
2006-09-04 16:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by jh361 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a girl but I will give you the guys perspective, first of all if he doesn't handle your needs with normal intercourse he should help you out with other means after he is done. It certainly is a give and take sort of thing. But honestly if he just stops everything, handle that **** yourself, either way you get off and it could inspire him to have a better performance later.
2006-09-04 16:49:21 · answer #5 · answered by Opus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your husband cums before you then the next time you have sex tell your husband to get you off first then roll over and see how he likes it. i make it a practice to always get my partner off, first before i get off. there is several things you can do to ensure your partner gets off, the best one is to go down on her, this will never fail.
2006-09-04 23:28:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until the next day and tell him you felt hurt that he did not consider your needs and ask him why this happened. Ask him how he would feel if you had an orgasm, pushed him off and rolled over to fall asleep and left him hanging.
2006-09-04 16:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by shelly w 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not a gross question to me,if i finished before my girl i would use my fingers to helps her get her orgasm and suck her breast,which would get me hard again and slow down in round two so she could get that else 3-4 before getting my next orgasm.
2006-09-04 16:53:54 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that your husband would be sensitive enough to make you satisfied orally, manually, or with a device made to one self pleasure. Personally I would rather have my partner have several orgasms before mine ... My sugestions is to ask your husband to satisfy you ... after all he loves you and wnats you to be happy yes ??
2006-09-04 18:13:46 · answer #9 · answered by mark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let him rest for a minute and masterbate while I smoke a cigarette and tell him he better get to giving me oral and let him lick and finger me and after I was good and ready I would start giving him oral and roll him over on his back and hop on it and ride him long and hard until I came !!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-04 17:21:43 · answer #10 · answered by ProudSexySouthernGirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So he came first, but you can still get him ( if you want to and he is still capable of) to mastubate you or fondle your breast while you mastubate yourself till you are satisfied.
then you can choose whether to roll over and sleep to be boring or you can cuddle while talk till both of you slowly fall asleep.
2006-09-04 16:53:51 · answer #11 · answered by condon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋