i love him .. still after a year of not being together .. i hate him but love him
2006-09-04 16:22:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Many reasons.. one is no closure. Must have closure to get fully over someone.
Its also a psychological thing. The more someone treats you like dirt the more you respond to them.. the more you want them. You are in a state where you want him to see the best in you. What you can and have offered him. He on the other hand apparently is not ready for a relationship. He is in the playing field and loves it. This will leave you upset, mad, yet jealous at the same time. They say its a fine line between love and hate... but for many people they get stuck on that line.. and cant go one way or the other.
Your not going to get over this if you all dont get back together. Only then can you be treated as you were over and over again. This will finally pull you across to the hate line. Thats when you get closure. Thats when you can move on. Trust me. Been there done that. I am now the happiest I have ever been with my husband and child.
2006-09-04 16:24:10 · answer #1 · answered by Keith Perry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. I don't know much about you or how old you are. I'll assume that you really do love him and that you're not a little 6th grader using the word too vaguely. I kind of know what you're going through. Sometimes I feel like my ex doesn't deserve me because of how she treats me sometimes, but I know she's a good person and I feel like I can bring that out in her. Perhaps this is the case with you. What I would do is pray for him and make sure you know how he feels. You want to show him that you care about him but whatever you do, don't let him use that against you. Best of luck to you!
2006-09-04 23:35:22 · answer #2 · answered by Nemo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a part of life. In our poor litle minds we just dont want to believe, You cant stop loving someone over night, if you do, it was not love. When you are with someone for such a period of time, its a bond simple. You have to find a way to get over him. It will be hard trust me but when you do your good. I wish you the best. No one deserves to be lied to or cheated on
2006-09-04 23:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by Robyn D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's just the way it goes girl.. I know you love him but I wouldn't stay with him if you are thinking about it.. because you don't want to take the chance of being hurt again. Being cheated on is one of the worst feelings ever.
2006-09-04 23:27:52 · answer #4 · answered by awesome_eo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you try to hate him the more you will start loving him...
2006-09-04 23:27:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do understand. I still love my wife even though I'm divorcing her.
2006-09-04 23:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by Otis F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're co-dependent. read a self-help book on the subject, and move on.
2006-09-04 23:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by bad guppy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well we can't turn are heart off like computer , only time will heal them wound for you dear, but they will heal i promise.
2006-09-04 23:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're an idiot.
2006-09-04 23:27:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it just for the lust that you are not together no more
2006-09-04 23:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋