i was just on the phone with my best friend for about an hour, and ended up telling him i liked him, mostly out of impulse. all he said was that it was okay and wouldn't ruin anything (because i was saying i thought it would) and he didn't say he liked me, which makes me pretty sure he doesn't. I don't want to ask him- it would sound so desperate. now i regret telling him and don't know what to do, i feel so hurt even though he makes it clear that he loves me as a friend, what do i do?
2006-09-04 16:21:38 · 23 answers · asked by katie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he said it was fine right well you are going to have to wait until tomorrow to talk to him. be happy that you told him nothing wrong with it, and hopefully he feels the same but you wont know until you ask
2006-09-04 16:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a best friend that i liked in middle school and i told him...he did the same thing your friend did...i ended up asking him and he only loved me like a sister...it hurt for a while cause i liked him so much but i got over it and we are still best friends till this day...just go with the flow and do what your heart tells you to...if he is really your friend then he will stick around...it may hurt for a while not being with them but i promise everything works out the way it should
2006-09-04 23:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by angel_baby_16_072004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)As cruel as this sounds......He's just not that into you.
2) If he were, he would have recipricated. Move on. There are men out there that are standing in line to be with you.
3)When they like you, YOU know it.
4)Best bet is dont call this guy for a few days.
5)Let him call you and dont return his call until you have your emotions under control.
6) Grab a good girlfriend and go have some fun.
7) As controversial as this is, it really works....Read "the rules".
8) As soon as you find a nice guy to date you will be over this friend.
9) Seriously, DONT call him. You WILL look desperate. Guys hate that.
10)Go on a roadtrip and do something silly that you would never normally do. Dance on a table...bungie jump....skinny dip in a public pool....whatever. This will take your mind off the whole thing.
2006-09-04 23:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by rdm7672 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful he loves you as a friend. Be thankful he didn't lie to you just to use you (get in your pants). Be thankful that he didn't tell you there is no way you two could ever be any more than just friends. Be thankful that he was polite and didn't insult you or laugh at you or deliberately try to embarrass you.
Be thankful he is capable of desplaying maturity beyond his age, and try to act like a mature person yourself. In other words, don't let this crush you. Even though you're adorable, not everyone is going to fall in love with you. Some guys just like ugly chicks. And keep in mind, that ugly chicks need love too. And it's much more difficult for them to find a guy, so give them a break. There will be tons of other good looking guys you'll meet, and many of them will find you irresistable. Just be cool, and let it happen in its own time.
2006-09-04 23:36:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't worry about it, what is said is said and worrying about it won't change anything. Now I suggest you do absolutely nothing just go on as if you never said anything at all. You caught him off guard and he might not have even thoought of you in that way so one of three things will happen he will either realize he likes you to and start to show it, he will ignor you afraid of your feelings and not wanting to feel uncomfortable around you or he just continues like nothing has happened. No matter what happens don't stress about it, just consider it a lesson on the road of life. I wish you happiness and treat him like you always have, Good Luck.
2006-09-04 23:30:42 · answer #5 · answered by joejo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay. Don't do anything crazy. Continue to spend time with him. He may have just needed some time to digest the situation (I have in this circumstance). Ask him how he feels about you so that you are both clear. It doesn't sound desperate.
2006-09-04 23:25:51 · answer #6 · answered by socal_081 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, confront him what your last conversation and ask him how he felt. It's the only way to resolve your feelings towards him, whether he likes you or not.
Note: He's a guy so they tend not to be so overly emotional like women when it comes to this sort of things.
2006-09-04 23:25:27 · answer #7 · answered by Ankhesenamun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ehh I can sypmathise(sp?) with you.. I didnt the same thing only under abit diffrent circumstances. My guy frind flits with other grils witch is evern worse but eh. I can't really tell you what to do becuase I don't know ethier, but i'd thought id let you know you're not alone. :)
2006-09-04 23:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by Dex's Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait for your friend to see if they make any advances towards you. If not within a week or 2 chances are they dont like you like that.
2006-09-04 23:23:41 · answer #9 · answered by sheltz32tt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing--that is the best thing. The damage has been done, but so what. Continue on as though nothing happened.
2006-09-04 23:23:11 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋