im not lying i mean everything i do someone just tries to bring me down and i have no friends if i do they wont talk to me long why does this happen to me?
2006-09-04 16:16:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im 17 mabye it is where i live im in tennessee are people from the south mean no offense if your from the south and you are nice
2006-09-04 16:30:20 · update #1
I don't know... but how sad
2006-09-04 16:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by pink9364 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well
In Life Sometimes you Might Not being Accepted by The Other
and if too Many People have the same Opinion About You
No Matter what you Think,,,They are Right
so Maybe You need to look little deep inside of you and try to realize what Might Make people Think you are This way
2006-09-04 23:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by Momomada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It honestly depends on how you've carried yourself. Is there a possibility that you come off rude/pompous? Maybe there's something about your mannerisms that bothers people. Do you act silly at inappropriate times? Do you try too hard to be accepted (so that you look fake)? There's all sorts of things. First you have to study yourself and study very hard.
Also, are you sure you're not exaggerating a bit. There's no way "everyone" brings you down. Maybe you just need to pick the people you surround yourself with.
2006-09-04 23:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by Rob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like someone needs a little optimism in thier life! oh yes and maybe everyone around you is an ***. if they just purposely hate on you n stuff just forget them. be nice to people and nice people will come to you. make sure you arent trying to be cool, or one of them crazy kids that people are always laughin at and stuff, unless of course you are. just be yourself... i know, everyone says that, and quite frankly i wish i never had to say that, but i ve seen many kids with some issues that make them feel compelled to make people like them by acting wierdly and such. no one really ever likes them and they just keep trying and its kinda sad. really you seem like a cool guy, well actually i just said that to make you feel better, and now your question isnt true because i was nice to you and i don't even know you so... people arent mean to you "all the time". i guess what im trying to say is, maybe people arent always mean to you and most of this issue is in your head and your inability to see the good side of things... not saying you cant, i had your same problem and after i started being optimistic and happy( not the psycotic kind of happy where someone is freakishly happy all the time) i felt better bout myself and i realised i had more friends then i thought. so...yay.
2006-09-04 23:31:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you surround yourself with positive people then you will find out who your real friends are. Just know that you will always have a friend in Jesus and when it is time to go to heaven you can only speak for you self and not those so call freinds and mean people.
2006-09-04 23:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by love_30034 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooooooooohhhhhhhh.
sometimes life is ugly and you can do is go through all the though time to get to the good part. so i recommend having positive attitude and having confidence in yourself.never let another persons comments bring you up or down.be comfortable with who you are. just toon out the negative.and i don't know how od you are but, with age there is maturity and understanding so i say don't be down.
2006-09-04 23:26:56 · answer #6 · answered by lina28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am not mean to you am i,i dont know for sure why maybe you need a reality check, are you helping others, are you being honest to yourself and others, are you industrious or completely boring, if you think youve been good well may be its not just youre lucky year
i mean being alone is solitude if you are tired of them being mean go and read a book, do something else that does not include those who hate you
solitude is company
2006-09-04 23:20:03 · answer #7 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since your young, what people skills have you developed.
You might have a life where people just want to Foowe on you.
Develop elders in your life and seek knowledge to turn this situation around. It's easy to blame others, but never ourselves.
2006-09-04 23:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by honker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, we're so in the same boat man.
and dont u worry it aint u. its them.
some people are just like that. the world is full of mean bastards.
u just gotta take it one day at a time. life is meant to be enjoyed. not endured. so do what u like, what u want, and screw what other people think
2006-09-04 23:19:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is the way you come off to people. Try not to let it bother you. If people don't see how great of a person you are, their loss.
2006-09-04 23:20:48 · answer #10 · answered by Ewww Gross 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be more assertive and self confident. People are just advanced animals. When they sense fear, uncertainty, shyness, or any form of weakness they act like sharks in bloody water.
2006-09-04 23:19:39 · answer #11 · answered by smith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋