i have a boyfriend in singapore he so nice and kind to me but i am scared now because i dont know how to tell him what i do... because he give me money then i lend to people. so i desperate to get back the money faster so i gambler so until i am become addicted to CASINO... until i use his own account. i am scared a lot i dont know what to do so please help me... i just think maybe one day i no money and also my honey i loose because of this mistake so please help me what i do.... i cant sleep because of this prob!!! hope all there give me a advice... thanks alot...
2006-09-04 16:14:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
how to start again?
2006-09-04 16:26:04 · update #1
You better grow up fast. You live in the Philippines, so you should already know that Filipinos have a terrible reputation around the world for not paying back debts....that is just the way it is....tell your overseas sucker boyfreind the truth....or are you afraid he might not send you any more money? I tend to think that is your biggest fear...that you will lose him and your sourse of income...Philippines has some beautiful women, but their whole culture is one of a feeling that it's an obligation to share one's stuff with the community and not really an obligation to ever pay it back!
2006-09-05 05:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by cbmaclean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 13:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by Charlotte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, quit gambling, find a way to cure your addiction.
Second, you didn't say how people whom you lend money to, use it. Do you lend them money because they need it for their basic needs like food, shelter, clothing, and/or education? Or do they borrow money from you just so they could gamble too or do illegal drugs? If they use the money to do bad things, like gambling, doing illegal drugs or the like, then you should stop lending them money. But if they use the money to satisfy their basic needs like those I mentioned above, food, clothing, education, etc. and they have no one to turn to, I guess it's good on your part that you lend them money. However, do not spoil and do not let them be entirely dependent on you. They should eventually make their own way of living, they should find a job so that they could finance their own needs. This is just my advice, only you could decide what you should do since you did not detail your problem with regards to lending money to other people.
Third, you should tell your boyfriend the truth no matter how hard it is. Say you are and be truly sorry for your mistakes.
Last, we all fall into sin but we should always rise again, and start life over again, this time for the better. So start finding a job, find new friends, turn to God and pray to him and be strong and confident that you could do it and that you'll be happy and fulfilled again. :)
(So, you live in the Philippines. I live there as well.)
2006-09-04 16:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs Brandon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So ure a girl in philipines. I'd assume ure a philipino. And u have a boyfriend in singapore so ure not with him at the moment. If ure a philipino, obviously u have friends and family there. Lend money frm ur friends and family, quit gambling and get a life.
2006-09-04 16:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get help with your gambling addiction! Before you lose your man too. Good luck to you
2006-09-04 16:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your boyfriend the sad truth, ask for forgiveness,and dont gamble again it does you no good believe me i have experienced that,tell your boyfriend the truth
2006-09-04 16:17:26 · answer #6 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know that your picture is a male right, and don't gamble n e more, find a different way to earn moeny
2006-09-04 16:17:17 · answer #7 · answered by Sami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mom, is that you again?
2006-09-04 16:30:03 · answer #8 · answered by bad guppy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋