my boyfriend get mad and start fussing when i want to go some where.he even get mad when i want to go see my mother. what should i do leave him are stay.
2006-09-04 16:11:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is too possessive and controlling. I would leave if I were you. He isn't your father and he can't tell you what to do.
2006-09-04 16:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Basically, hes holding you hostage there if he wont let you leave. Which is against the law, in any capacity. You dont need to be hemmed up in that house, You may need to get help from the authorities, and that only if im reading your question right. It is against the law to hold someone against their will. you need to get some help, Hes a control freak and plans to keep you there until hes ready for you to go, and that seems like when he goes somewhere. Thats no life for you or anyone else. Take measures to do what you have to do for your safety. Now, did I read you right? or no? Good Luck
2006-09-04 23:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by tennman012000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please leave, or else something very bad might happen. Most likely he will get worse, could lead to abuse etc. No one has any right to enforce those type of rules to you, think about it, he won't even let you see your own mother-- thats really sad.
2006-09-04 23:21:54 · answer #3 · answered by Heatha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. He does not want to see the world.
2006-09-04 23:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. That the beginning of an abusive relationship, cutting you off from your family,friends,etc.
2006-09-04 23:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave his @$$. He has not right to be that possessive. It will probably get worst with time leading to possible abuse. I bet he would be pi$$ed if you done the same thing to him.
2006-09-04 23:14:43 · answer #6 · answered by southern-belle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like he has real control issues. try to get to the bottom of it or leave. it will prob only get worse
2006-09-04 23:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by waysexy26 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start out by just deciding that you wish to go "somewhere", somewhere legitamate. Just go, and when you get back, if there's trouble.........you'll know if he really loves you or you really don't need him.
2006-09-04 23:17:39 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not even your mother!!! Leave him! He doesn't deserve you.
2006-09-04 23:19:57 · answer #9 · answered by mik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up if u two cant get along.
2006-09-04 23:13:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋