2006-09-04 15:38:16 · 10 answers · asked by withallthesethings 4 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Because we get the message from very early on that size matters. I know that a lot of women will say, and this may be true for them, that "it's not what you have, but how you use it." But there are still just as many woman saying "oh yes, size matters, the bigger the better."
Yes, it's an insecurity, because what women think matters to us. No one wants to be the guy who's girl might be unsatisfied with what he has.
Trust me, no man wants to worry about this or feel insecure about his penis, or how tall he is, or if he'll keep his hair any more than any woman wants to worry if her breasts are big enough, or if she's too fat, or if she's too old. There's a lack of honesty and communication between the sexes that keeps all these insecurities going.
2006-09-04 16:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by dave 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually it's because they think women are. Some teen girls talk with their friends at length about it (no pun intended)! I remember overhearing a few conversations like that between sluts in high school. And occasionally a man will get concerned because he will encounter a woman who insults him on purpose or who cannot be satisfied because her vagina is too loose for him. At least that's what I've read. Good night!
2006-09-04 22:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is a social culture that non-verbally dictates that the size of a man's penis is a reflection of how manly he is. Stupid if you ask me.
2006-09-04 22:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by Amy J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity, I guess. If women cared as much as most men seem to think they do, wouldnt women get "vaginal reduction" surgeries?
2006-09-04 22:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by Phil S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are worried about unable to satisfy the sexual desire of their lovers with the small size .This is not true!
2006-09-04 23:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by nhanthe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the ones that are concerned are the ones with either small ones or they have no skills in the bedroom
2006-09-04 22:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by Dawn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know and I am a man
2006-09-04 23:26:51 · answer #7 · answered by TheWonderer878398 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it is something that is emphasized in our culture.
2006-09-04 22:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by wildstar_2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ego,
and the lack of experience to know what and how to please women.
2006-09-04 22:41:24 · answer #9 · answered by shodan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some WOMEN are....
2006-09-04 22:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by KT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋