Its like I have this friend, she is very cool and everything. It just seem like she hang around me when I got something new or do something she likes. I feel like she using me to do things and learn and show others. Its like she building her self esteem off of me. Like she is using everything I do and say to impress others and now she is getting attention she acts as if she don't need me anymore. Its like that's all she around me for, she says that she is my friend but I don't see it. I already talk to her about it but she still doing it what should I do??
2006-09-04 15:31:39 · 8 answers · asked by mary_sue21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Take a closer look at your definition of the word friend...
2006-09-04 15:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by Freethrashing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End the friendship put this one to rest. don't nothing good ever come out of a friend that uses you are try to do what you do but JEALOUSY. Let go easy just when she calls don't answer or if she comes around and you are in a group walk off. i have had this problem and it don't feel good for a person to use you when you really wanted a good honest friendship. All she wants to do is get things from you and wants you to buy her so she can look and seem very cool. Let this one ride you will meet alot more people in your life time sweetie let it go. Before you be hurt
2006-09-04 22:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know what you should do. And, it's best you start understanding the difference between a close friend, a friend and just an acquaintance.
2006-09-04 22:34:59 · answer #3 · answered by ceprn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what your saying i think shes using you, just tell her to back off, in a nice way... talk to her about it, i dont think shes really your friend
2006-09-04 22:40:10 · answer #4 · answered by monkay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her if that's what shes doing. and say if your going to use me i cannot be your friend. or just don't say anything.but don't talk to her anymore.
2006-09-04 22:39:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might just have to end the friendship, sorry.
2006-09-04 22:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like you have this friend? Do you have this friend or not?
2006-09-04 22:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop using excuses you ninja your lesbian thats all ... you have no mcnuggets dont worry about protecting them,
2006-09-04 22:34:29 · answer #8 · answered by foreverspoiledprincess 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋