So I've known this one guy since I was like 7 years old and the thing is he has a lot of like mental diseases that make him act kind of crazy but he has the hugest crush on me still many years later and now he's on medication...but he's treated me pretty meanly because as I said before the diseases make him act crazy(he's been expelled from many schools, thats how crazy)so now he's back in town and he keeps trying to get my attention but he never actually comes up to my house he just plays football very loudly in front of my house with his friends and things like that. What should I do?! I don't like him like that I just want to be friends but I'm afriad he'll start being crazy again...Please help!
2006-09-04 15:26:38 · 8 answers · asked by kirabella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ignore him if you don't want a relationship with him. Friendship would be too hard for him to deal with.
2006-09-04 15:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that you don't want to pursue a romantic relationship.
you: hey
him: HEY!!!! whats up?
you: nothing really. oy, mates (to his friends)
him: wanna go out? like next saturday?
you: how about we get some food??? i'm starving
him: ok that's cool
you: (silently) YES!!! i didn't say yes, but he got the message.
if that doesn't work, ignore him. never be pressured into a relationship. good luck girl! and if u need more advice, IM or email me at princessofgimme@yahoo.com
bye!
2006-09-04 22:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be what he needs. Maybe he's mostly acted up so you would notice him. Just at least befriend him you don't have to date him but just talk and hangout with him.
2006-09-04 22:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by Wise One! *DuH* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you do exactly what you've been doing, nothing. If you don't like and he's crazy -- don't give him the attention he wants and he will eventually go away.
2006-09-04 22:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by leannainpa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont worry about it untill he ask you and if he do ask you than you are going to have to tell him that you have been friends for so long and you dont want to mess up your friendship by dating him.
2006-09-04 22:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by James Henderson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can either break his heart by going out with other boys(he will forget it). or just tell him that u ont like him enough.
2006-09-04 22:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by evil_cm 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um... don't do anything... ignore him. Don't give him positive or negative attention.
2006-09-04 22:29:10 · answer #7 · answered by Tall Blonde Spaz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell your parents, maybe they can talk to his.
2006-09-04 22:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by paoakalani 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋