got confused..i have a friend (shes pregnant to thier third baby) she asked me what to do about her husband...she caught her husband having affair with another woman..i dont know what my advice is.......i dont want to see her and her babies living a misery
2006-09-04 15:23:30 · 7 answers · asked by LISA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
find a good hiding place for his body!
2006-09-04 15:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by SKITTLES 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. Find out what makes him cheats? Is it because he is not happy with you? Or he just needs to massage his ego? Or because he doesn't care about anything just following his 'member'...
2. When u know already the reason why he cheated/cheats, can u forgive him and accept it?
3. Can u live with him without feeling victimized, etc?
4. Is he a good provider? Can u live without his support?
5. Is he a good father? Will the kids miss him/can't do without him?
6. Can u go on living and keep your children alone/only support from family members ,etc?
7. Are u doing the same thing? If u do, why u are having double standard?
8. Bottom line.. you are the one experiencing it so reach deep inside and look for the answer coz it all depends on u....
Have a nice day....
2006-09-04 15:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by sheyn A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a sad story, but I see so many woman make the wrong choices in this situation. Many woman stay with the man, because of the children, or because they are married.. they stay in these unhealthy relationships and the relationship lacks the most important ingredient.. which is love. they live together but do not communicate as husband and wife. What you can do for her is to be a real good friend offer your ear, shoulder and physical assistance with the kids, because she will feel she can not do it alone. She may be pregnant, but being pregnant doesnt not mean stay in unhealthy environment for herself as well as the children. If they do not want to seperate there is counseling for marriages that are falling apart. good luck!
2006-09-04 15:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by finallyamommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an important issue, not to be taken lightly. She needs to find out why he is cheating on her. There are two sides to every marriage problem, usually. Does she love him? With 3 children, she needs to try to find a solution, because she will have a tough time on her own. But, in the end if it turns out he is just a pussy hound, then she needs to dump him.
2006-09-04 15:27:59 · answer #4 · answered by Pepper's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop having sex with him. And start stashing money. God knows a man like that isn't concerned about his wife or his family. STASH STASH STASH....she'll never EVER have access like she has now to his money.
2006-09-04 15:26:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to move on. For her sake as well at the children.
2006-09-04 15:26:38 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave his sorry ***
2006-09-04 15:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by K Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋