Is it bad?

Question

Is it bad to want 2 loose your virginity really bad at age 16 turning 17? I am a female by the way..and all of the girls, or most of them are note virgins at the same age as me. I know that you can get pregnant, etc but if you use a condom its not bad rite?? What age did you loose your virginty??

Answer 1

It's only bad to lose your virginity to a guy you're NOT MARRIED TO! First and foremost, because fornication (sex outside of marriage) is SIN! God made us as sexual beings, and he OBVIOUSLY made sex to be a VERY pleasurable experience! (Otherwise who'd want to "do it", right?) And yet, with that very POWERFUL drive comes the sense of PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY! Sex belongs WITHIN MARRIAGE because when you have sex you are giving ALL of you, SPIRIT, SOUL AND BODY, to that person! As I heard a pastor say once, "Sex is a TOTAL TRIP!" That is what so many people fail to realise! Sex involves MORE than just the physical! It involves your MIND, your EMOTIONS, your WILL, your HEART! You cannot be CASUAL about sex without BAD consequences! It will "feel good", no doubt! But the GUILT AND SHAME that arises afterward RUINS that "first time" when it's NOT with YOUR SPOUSE! Also, it is SIN which ultimately leads to HELL! "Fornicators shall not inherit the kingdom of God". "For the wages of sin is death". "Thou shalt not commit adultery" covers MORE than just married people cheating, because Jesus said, "Whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart." Sex outside of marriage is NEVER based in LOVE, but in LUST! Because love is a COMMITMENT! And that commitment is made public in MARRIAGE! As far as "using a condom", you are only fooling yourself if you think their 100% foolproof! Their NOT! They are statistically PROVEN to fail 1/3 of the time! Also, STD'S like AIDS are small enough to travel THROUGH the miniature pores in a condom! Young lady, you should WAIT till you are MARRIED TO THE RIGHT MAN, the man who is HONOURABLE and will PROVE IT by not "pressuring you" with, "Awww, C'MON BABY! If you LOVE me, let's!!!" Rather, he will BE WILLING to wait BECAUSE he loves you! The most SPECIAL THING a woman can give her husband, after her vow to "love, honour and cherish him, till death do us part" is HER VIRGINITY! Believe me, he will RESPECT YOU far more than if you are NOT a virgin on your wedding night! Because a woman who is STILL a virgin is not "cheap and easy". She is PRECIOUS and of GREAT WORTH, and therefore WORTH WAITING FOR! The main thing is, MAKE SURE YOUR HEART IS RIGHT WITH GOD BY BEING SAVED BY JESUS CHRIST FROM YOUR SINS! God loves you! And He has a very SPECIAL man made JUST FOR YOU! That is, IF you are willing to WAIT ON HIM to bring him into your life!

Answer 2

Why do you want to lose your virginity? Just because everyone else has? Not a good reason. I was 22. We were in love. We had been dating over 2 years. It was hard to wait, but we had sex for the first time on our wedding night.

Answer 3

Nowaday, girls have experience in their younger age. I have my first around 16 with my classmate. And my best girl friend who had her first time in 15. I take pill everyday to protect from pregnancy. But If you use pill and condom together, it will give you better protection.

Enjoy

Joyce

Answer 4

its not bad but it seems like a very young age to loose ur virginity, its ok but its kinda young.

Answer 5

If you're so determined to push something into your poontang, buy a vibrator and lock yourself in your room and go for it. Condoms are NOT 100% effective. Pregnancy makes babies. not worth the gamble.

Answer 6

wait for the right guy, or you will regret it. it will mean more to you. i was 17 (and it hurt really, REALLY bad), and later when i got married, i wished that i had waited.