I have decided Im going to my ex's place to talk to him about my feelings I still have for him...It's been 5 months, but...I'm not over him and I dont think im going to be for a while, the feelings are so real and very true, I never felt this way for someone, he's even in my dreams, he's the 1st thing i think about when i wake in the morning and when I go to sleep. Yea, your probably wondering why we broke up, it was because of me actually, over something that wasnt even worth it...not even a particular reason...just cuz I wanted to be with him more then we were able to and I just got so mad and I spent my last night with him, we didnt even say like, "it's over", or any braking up things you say..lol we just talked like.."Is this my last night sleeping here...stuff like that. Well you's see the point..now im going over there tomorrow..what should I say..what shouldnt I say? thanks alot!!!
2006-09-04 15:10:27 · 4 answers · asked by jackie b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why did it take you 5 months to work up the nerve to tell him. Have you felt this way since you broke up or just recently. If you haven't spoken to him in the last five months you might just want to pick up the phone and give him a call. Otherwise go over there and just start the conversation by asking how he's doing how he's been and so on. Try to keep it friendly and if you see your opportunity then let him know.
2006-09-04 15:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by Cris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of going over there to try to talk what could be an awkward conversation, how about this: Ask him out. Is there something you had in common with him such as a favorite band, or movie? or sporting event? perhaps a good restaurant you two shared. You could tell him you were thinking of HIM and you have two tickets to . . .(the event) .
At least this sets the stage that the relationship never ended (you just took a 5 month break). More importantly it doesn't put him under pressure to make a decision he may not be sure of anyway--helping you to ease back into his life.
2006-09-04 22:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by Hayseedless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you do really care about him then there no reason why you should leave him, if there is a problem that you forgot to manching then. probably leave him..
2006-09-04 22:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by jwtaz1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call first. it will hurt less if there's not another chick there.
2006-09-04 22:16:20 · answer #4 · answered by bad guppy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋