2006-09-04 15:00:41 · 17 answers · asked by Pauline C 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I think it's best if someone like YOU doesn't reproduce!!!
2006-09-04 15:03:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't just "make a baby" because your boyfriend says you should. I baby is a huge responsibility. You should put a lot of thought into your decision. Is this boyfriend going to be with you for the long term? Are you financially set to take care of a child? Are you emotionally ready for a baby? These are just a few of the things you need to think about.
2006-09-08 17:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by BethS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if he thinks that you are good enough to be the mother of his child, then you should be enough to be giving you a ring and making you his wife!! That is the problem with women now a days, they tend to not give themselves the value from the very beginning of their relationships., they have these kids out of wedlock and they teach no values to the daughters that are brought into the world and thinking that it is okay to have sex with your "boyfriend" and not get married and next thing you know they are pregnant and they have these kids and they cannot even claim for much as they are with these broke boyfriends that they cannot get half of anything because they are not legally married. It is claimed that being married is just a legal document, but it is a committment to one another and that the man shows that the woman that he chose to be his wife and the mother of his kids, he will take care and provide always and that he will be taking them under his wings to always be there. Now, marriage does not guarantee that the relationship will last forever, but it does guarantee that the wife will not come out empty handed and at least get some type of financial stability (if the husband is not broke) - and the mother is able to show her children that she gave herself the value and respect not to become a man's baby's mother but she was his wife and SHE gave him the priviledge of being the father of HER kids. Life is a give and take...
2006-09-04 22:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its your body and if you want to then go ahead, but first of all how old are you, are you financially stable, is he going to be there for you no matter what? Do you have a place to live that is big enought for you and your child? thes are some questions you need to seriously think about. babies are very expensive and you cant just put it away like a babydoll or barbie doll. They need alot of love and lot and lots of attention and money. Children are very expensive. clothing food, diapers, school and supplies and this that and the other. you need to sit him down and talk with him about this and make sure he is really wanting this just as much as you are. Make him Marry you so that you know he is completely committed to you and this "child" he wants so bad.
2006-09-04 22:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by ladyrebel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want a baby?after all you will be the one going through the pregnancy and birth.are you finacially ready?are you going to have his full support before and after the baby is born?if you answered yes to all the questions yes but if you are not sure i would consider waiting good luck!
2006-09-04 22:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by happy-go-lucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well according to several of your other posts you already did. Maybe you should stick to your story if you're going to ask for bogus advice. And I would sincerely hope you grow up a lot before you EVER taint the gene pool.
2006-09-04 22:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by jenpeden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, you need to grow up A LOT before having a baby.
2006-09-04 22:04:48 · answer #7 · answered by mommysrock 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he told u to then just tell him that u want to finish school(if ur in school) and get a career up and running first or u could tell him to wait until ur ready to make a baby but as long as u know what ur getting urself into ok.
2006-09-04 22:06:08 · answer #8 · answered by karlyn_hosking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one thing you should not do is have a baby
2006-09-04 22:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Judging from your other questions, I'd say it's too late for this question. You really need to grow up and fast. You are about out of time.
2006-09-04 22:26:34 · answer #10 · answered by Jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are married, own and home and finish school.. you shouldn't have to ask this question. If you were ready, you would know it. Good luck
2006-09-04 22:04:01 · answer #11 · answered by ShanaJ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋