Have you ever heard of someone being controlled by love?
What would it mean to be controlled by love?
I think I mean believing in someone so much that you are in a way "controlled" by their love.
Does that make any sense? I'm not talking about someone necessarily ordering someone around. It is like the small child believes in the parent. Or perhaps like the pet believes in his master. Not that someone is being dehumanized. These are just analogies.
I was surprised when so many people got upset when I used the word "controlled". it just depends on what you mean by control.
2006-09-04 14:48:37 · 8 answers · asked by devotionalservice 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Love is controlling. We allow it to control our Psyche and how we react to others around us. Not a bad control but a control regardless, because we believe in what we are doing and that it the best thing for our relationships. Being under the control of someones love can be very invigorating as long as they don't use this control to try and humiliate or defame you.
2006-09-04 14:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes. You can be so in love that it controls every aspect of your life. Everywhere you go you think of your lover. First thing in the morning and last thing at night. All during the day. You never want to be too far from them. Is that what you mean by being controlled?
2006-09-04 22:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya, I understand what you mean. But an adult that feels actually like someone is 'controlling' them has the ability to make a smart decision, whereas a pet or child does not have the capacity. You teach others how to treat you. Does that make sense?
2006-09-04 21:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I believe it is possible and it is even better when the other person is experiencing the same thing.
2006-09-04 21:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by strawberries 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as it is not harm or abuse I think you can be so in love with someone that it takes over who you are.
2006-09-04 21:54:26 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that's very possible. We will do things when we are in love that we normally wouldn't do.
2006-09-04 21:53:10 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a person have love and sharing his/her to other it is so simple .right.some one can decide to love others or not and how much he want.
the more love the more peace on this world.
2006-09-04 21:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by kaku j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is, Kinda like brainwashing. They are getting you to do whatever they want you to do. And you are not able to do what you want to do.
2006-09-04 22:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by jrealitytv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋