i have a crush on this guy, but i think he and my best friend have a *thing* 4 each other- i'm constantly ignored when my crush and my friend are talking and i'm there 2
2006-09-04 14:08:04 · 20 answers · asked by luckylefty52 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
you think they have feelings for each other. but do they realy? have you talked to your friend about it? talk to her first. do she know you like him? talk to her. people say friends should not let a boy come between friendship, well thats true cause friendship last longer, but that doesnn't mean you should give up your feelings. you should let them both know how you feel and you should know how your friend and that guy feels. once thats cleared, then lets see who the boy picks. i'm not trying to get you and your friends to fight each other, but if you llike someone you should try at least. if shes a friend and the boy picked you she should still treat you the same and feel happy for you. if your friend is choosen by the boy, you should do the same and move on to someone else.( when i say feel happy for her, i don't mean you can actually do that, cause i'm 90% sure that watching them togther will make you feel like to cry. so you 'll have to at least pretend. and still treat her like a friend. and cry where they can't see you otherwise you'll give them trouble and humiliate your self)
2006-09-04 14:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by dot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking you're best friend has it going on... and you don't.
I don't mean to be HARSH... but look at what your Best Friend IS or DOES that you aren't or do not. Perhaps you can compete if you improve your presentation. Perhaps you just THINK ABOUT your crush, while she acts on it.
You best chance at changing this is to figure out what's REALLY going on.
Good luck.
2006-09-04 21:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really sucks, but there isn't anything you can do. Just step back and try and be happy for them. You don't wanna get in the way of 2 people who like eachother. There are so many guys out there, try to find another guy who likes you.
2006-09-04 21:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That must be very painful. I would not put myself in a position like this....it is no good for you. I think you should let the 2 of them be alone. Nobody wants to be ignored, and in this case, it is even worse....2 people you care about. Whoa.
2006-09-04 21:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know what to really say.. they do have a thing for eachother, well im not sure about ur friend but ur crush does... if ur friend doesnt then he will eventually stop tryingto get her... then u can tell him how u feel n u 2 will live happily ever after.. if it lasts over a year
2006-09-04 21:15:55 · answer #5 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well keep your crush away from your best friend try not 2 keep them alking and be nice 2 ur crush then he mite start having a crush on u
2006-09-04 21:14:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she knows that you like him then she should back off and if she don't then she isn't a good friend in the first place. She should when he starts talking to her bring you into the conversation. Looks like they are planning to hook up whether you like it or not!
2006-09-04 21:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Know It All 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay you have a thing for this other dude does he turn you on hons want to do the big bang in bed with him hons?? okay your other best friend male female what are we going talking with this mixed up affairr? okay this other he is he your current boyfriend?? are this boyfriend and this other best friends secretly gay?(sounds like soap opera)!! i would love too know who is who in this tangled up affair-- whos doing the big bang!! with wo here-- okay why dont you let these other pople who ever the hell they are malr female 2 lesbiand 2 other gays have there space here hons in trying too figure out this screwed upmess- hit the highway theres nothing here in common for you it might take you until your 95 and in a nursing home with false tetth falling out, to figure who who in the hel is who here in this mixed up mess!
2006-09-04 21:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your best friend is truly your friend, talk to her, in a gentle
questioning manner.
You may find out.
2006-09-04 21:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds very weird referring to someone as "your crush"
2006-09-04 21:09:42 · answer #10 · answered by Mark F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋