My friends husband?

Question

I had sex with my friends huband. I dont feel bad about it. Well, she got suspicous and noticed someting wasnt right. he ended up telling her that I told him I wanted to sleep with him, but he failed to mention that we made love for hours. Im pissed off because he made me look bad without telling the complete truth so that he would look inocent. Im tempted to tell her I slept with him. Should I? He couldnt deny it, because he has a couple of identfiable marks on him that only someone whos been down there would know. You can say what you want about me, because i dont care. All I want to know is if I should tell the wifey about our naughty escapades?

She treats him like crap anyways. What little amount of self esteem he had, she has shredded it to pieces. All she does is sit on her fat lazy ***. She doesnt clean she doesnt cook, and when he comes home from work, she has him running around doing a millon things at once. He wants to leave her, but he feels stuck and has know where to go. I would take him but im married too.

Answer 1

You know you were wrong. But if you had fun recking their home, more power to ya. I would stay hush hush about it. You never know, he might want to come back for more.

Answer 2

Hell No , don't tell her. You had better run for the hills. They have a name for a woman like you and it is not Best Friends. That is exactly why we all ask about a true friend. If he made you look bad, it is because you are BAD. NO DON"T TELL ANY MORE. You are a home wrecker . So leave it alone. You probably already have broken up that home, but I'll gaurantee you, that he will not want you anymore. Stay the Hell away from married men !!! Go get men of your own, and stop trying to take a man away from a woman who already has him.

Answer 3

Sounds like you're good friends.

But take a look at the facts, does it matter if you had sex 1 time or 84? Who cares, you screwed your "firend" and he cheated on his wife. I don't think there's any way to make either of you look like an innocent party. If you really feel the immature need to lay down the facts about how he humped your brains out and that neither of you could care any less about her feelings, by all means. It only gives her more leverage in divorce court and more excuse to do you harm in return.

Answer 4

first of all you wrong as hell, and i know you don't care. But you and the husband need to be together. his wife is not a fool like y'all think she is. but for the most part since the both of you were wrong i think you should tell the whole truth. because whether he likes it or not the truth will come to the light. you had sex with your friend husband and then you let him make a fool out of you, babygirl you crazy as hell. You need to tell you friend the truth before he has a chance to make you look like an even bigger fool. the wife is probably gonna stop fooling with you any way so why let him make you look like the s**t and give her the details of your night together. i hope the sex was worth all of this. then again if i was the wife i would kick your a**

Answer 5

yes you have to tell her, she's your friend, you don't do that to friends, I'm against this because I had 2 similar situation, but I wasn't married, I was dating at the time. The first situation was my ex-best friend slept with my ex. That really hurt me big time. The second time was, my ex-bestfriend told me right infront of my face that she'd never go after a friend's boyfriend. well, guess what? she did, she told my husband (boyfriend at the time) that it'd be great, if he dates 2 girls at the same time, yeah first of all she lied to my face, then second of all stabs me in the back, thank god my husband isn't like some other guys who wouldn't cheat on someone who he loves, he was the one who told me about it, and not my ex-best friend! So, when I see you said you slept with your friend's husband and you're not sorry, really pisses me off big time, because it's very wrong, and yes you have to tell her everything you did. He did something very wrong and he's married to her, of course he's gonna make himself look better and make you look worse, and if you lie to her, you'll make yourself look even worse than you already are. I hope she B*tches you out, because clearly you deserve it. and married men will never leave his wife for the person who he had an affair with.

Answer 6

With friends like you, who needs enemies?!

I see your name is "Ivy" - as in POISON-Ivy???! How appropriate!!!

So you don't care what other people think, huh? What comes around, goes around, sweetheart! What you and your (so-called) "friend's" husband did was despicable. I do, however, agree with ONE thing you said, and that is that something wasn't "right"! Do you know what the opposite of "right" is? It's called "WRONG"!!! You have no conscience, and NO class! You have the morals of a rattlesnake. Their marriage is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. You need to butt-out, NOW!

Hopefully, this turd of a "man" will 'fess up, and beg his wife's forgiveness. THEN she should exercise her right to give a full report of every nasty detail to your OWN husband! But it is NOT your place to stir up the sh*t anymore than you already HAVE. I should think you've done ENOUGH damage already, so get on your broom and fly as far away from this troubled couple as you can.

You are NOT this woman's "friend" - and you deserve to have YOUR OWN marriage destroyed as a result. Whatta SKANK!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

Let that go. Along with sleeping with him.

My brother slept with his girlfriend's friend who was also his next door neighbor and everytime I saw the friends together I was screaming "Fool" in my head.

Despite what you already did, respect the marriage. When people get married, when the Pastor says, "What got has brought together, let no man put asunder." That means that all of the people who know they are married, were a part of what married them and if you undermine that, you are undermining something you promised to uphold.

Answer 8

WELL, if you dont care about yourself - TELL HER,
WHY do you think married men have sex with other women, BECAUSE the women are to cheap, they dont care, like you,
DID you really think that he would tell her, NO but now if you tell her, will she believe you, maybe not, hes allready said your after him, SO his wifey allready thinks your a slapper,
HE, WILL talk his way out of it & YOU will be the trouble maker, if he did it with you he will do it again,
what would i do, if the wifey contacted me i would tell her, in no uncertain terms, if not i would bide my time & wait until he found his next victim then i would ring her & grass him up, i wouldnt just put myself in the line of fire, it takes two to tango, he is the main dog, SO catch him & wrap his lead round his neck,

Answer 9

I think you have done enough and should just stay out of the situation. You have told us you do not care about what we will say about you so why are you so worried about whether or not wifey thinks her husband is the victim in the situation. Why don't you just leave them both alone and move on to the next husband on your list?

Answer 10

She deserves to know, if for no other reason than to let her know she needs to get her self tested for any STD you might have passed on to him. And, if he slept with you, you might want to get yourself checked, too, for he may have a history for sleeping with many women at the same time. Morally, I have no problem having multiple lovers. Health-wise, I do. It is extremely risky to EVERYONE involved.

As a note to your additional comments. 1) Humans can justify anything, which you are doing. 2) Tell him to grow a spine. Is he suddenly supposed to gain self-respect by sleeping with you?!? You think too much of yourself.

Answer 11

I don't think you should unless you want sweet revenge...Think about it if it were you in the wife's shoes what would you do if someone told you something like that? Is it really going to be worth it? Doubt it. Be the better one and walk away unless you have a serious attraction to the guy.