They say if I don't do it again they will tell everything to my husband. What should I do?
2006-09-04 13:40:04 · 26 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell your husband NOW! So that he can protect you. You were and are a victim. He can tell them he knows the truth and that if they come near you again..well you fill in the blank. If you inform your hubby you take away their power over you....don't let this abuse continue. tell your hubby now!...good luck..btw not sure what the laws are where you live, but you might be able to still report this since it happened to you as a minor...
2006-09-04 13:43:56 · answer #1 · answered by silver 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love and trust your husband you should have told him all the things that have ever happened to you. A trusting marriage means there are no secrets between you two. I suggest you go to him right now and tell him everything about what happened to you with your cousins and tell him that they threatened you. Get help for your pain with a heath care professional and don't be afraid to go to the police. Don't tell your cousins what moves your making just make them and do it quickly. GOD SPEED!
2006-09-04 13:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by Donna P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The statue of limitations has NOT run out on what happened before, call the police. Tell the police of what happened before and their threats. Tell your husband, be open and honest with him. YOU ARE A VICTIM. He will not be angry with you, he'll be understanding and your support, and that's what you need.... I would also look for some sort of victims support group to talk about what happened... It's very therapeutic to talk about these things, and it sounds like with your husband not knowing you've been holding it all in. You can't do that, you're only hurting yourself and empowering these evil people. Call the police, talk to your husband, and seek help.
2006-09-04 13:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts me every time I hear someone being sexually abused.I went through enough myself.Please help yourself get your life back. You have nothing to be ashamed over or guilty for.DON'T let this secret continue any longer.
Tell your husband what happened with your cousins and that they are threatening you again.Then report them.After that please go for some professional councilling to deal with the pain you've been carrying and hiding all this time.It's the only way to fully regain yourself back.
It took me a long time but it was worth it.I'm doing great now and I wish you all the best.Don't be afraid anymore.
2006-09-04 13:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by tea cup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband now. You don't have to put up with that. If they touch you call the police and press charges. But first you need to tell your hubby so he can protect you. You should not be afraid to tell him. Trust him with your problems
2006-09-04 13:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rapists rely on fear to control their victims... although the statue of limitations, and lack of physical evidence would make going to the police more than likely a dead end, realize that you are older now and that they have no power over you. Get a restraining order on them, and tell your husband yourself, he will bve nothing but supportive.
2006-09-04 13:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by tkachuk51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the police. This is now sexual harassment and you can go back years and have them prosecuted for what they did to you. The law protects people like you now, more so than ever. My bf had something like this done to him, and he had to go to court but as awful as that all may sound it is better - you don't want this person to do this to someone else do you?
2006-09-04 13:43:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I read your questions it seems to me that you are anally obsessed and making these things up- like your husband's 8-inch organ and so forth.
You don't need the police, you need a therapist.
2006-09-04 13:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by Hermit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they sodomized you then why havent you told your husband already so he can protect you from them?
And why havent you gone to the police yet?
2006-09-04 13:41:34 · answer #9 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk 2 ur husband urself hun, they r sick n I am sure ur husband will see that n be on ur side. they took advantage of u n hurt u, u need 2 stand up 4 urself what they did is horrible.
2006-09-04 13:42:46 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋